How would you react if you best friends was gay?

@jen14ed (865)
Philippines
September 7, 2009 12:52am CST
How would you react if you best friends who you had known for years came out and admitted they were gay? do you drop him as your friends or do you accept him? no matter what happen
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6 responses
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
7 Sep 09
If I removed every gay friend from my life, I might only have two left. What he/she does in their bedroom and personal life isn't my business.
@jen14ed (865)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
hi zoey7879 I'm so sad to your answer but its okey i hope someday you will realize there are no something bad with a gay guy?... me i have gay friends and i love my gay friends!!!!
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
11 Sep 09
You misinterpreted what I said. What that meant is that nearly all of my friends are gay...
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
ACCEPT right away. You made him as a best friend from who he is and not because of his gender. Unless you have feelings for him, too. Hey jen, we would appreciate it if you comment back on our responses. I think you have not made it a habit, but please kindly interact with us. Thanks.
@jen14ed (865)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
hi koalapenguin i have gay friends you know what i can believe it that she is gay because she act like a straight guy and she's handsome and shes cute you never realize shes gay!!! but i accept him as my best friends because there are no somethings bad for being gay!! she is also human and people!!!!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
12 Oct 09
Hi jen, well let me tell you this happened to me and it is a really funny story as everyone knew that my great friend Stratis was gay but he thought that no one knew so when he finally came out and declared it we all had to pretend we'd never realised it so he had a lovely suprise that not one of us had a problem accepting it, it was pretty obvous though because he carried that pink tartan handbag with him everywhere he went and often used to borrow some lipstick.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
i'll also accept him right away... being a gay was never a sin. i guess it only took him so much time to confess to us because he's not also sure if he's really gay or not... i'll be willing to accept them though and same goes with the lesbians... :D
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
is there a problem of being gay? no, i would still be the same friend he knew in the past. nothing wrong with being gay. we are all the same in the eyes of God, we are all His creations. even animals become our best friends, how much more a fellow human being.
@KaraKATAD (246)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Well I do have a friend who is gay, and actually he was my crush for the longest time. It hurt for a while because I was crushed, but I accepted him still despite the fact that my dreams of us being together were gone. He's still a great person and I still like being around him. I'd never abandon a friend, no matter what.