Is your wife/husband your ideal dream partner?

Hello Martin, Uhmnn...that's true. When i was young i had all the list of my ideal man...and married someone who possess opposite qualities from my ideal man..jejejeje. Love is never blind...it is the lover(the person)who becomes blind when fall in love.So,next time,i won't fall in love,..but..i will RISE IN LOVE hahahaha(joke,you always made me smile with your discussion amigo)

He is my ideal partner. He is what i was dreaming. I was prayed to God each night for months before i got him. So a lot of God's contribution in my life and i found it awesome. Nobody like him, not even my family. He protects me wherever we go, he loves our dear child, he is mature, he knows where he is going. He helps he to solve some problems so that i can more enjoy this life. He is a funny guy, but he can be very very angry to the people he doesn't like. Shortly, he is a bold guy, a very vigilant guy and dared to do anything for his parent and his whole family. He is also clever, very smart i meant, if i explored his mind about trade, life, etcetera. I ever asked God, whether this is the one. And the answer came to my ears was, "Yes, he is. You will not regret." Straightly a tepid feeling surged me, like a warm water was watering me. My effort was not useless.

My husband is absolutely my ideal partner. He is everything I ever wanted and meets every standard I ever had.

Hi there, Talking about an ideal partner. I agree that nobody in this world is perfect. So i think rarely an ideal partner. My partner is not my ideal dream partner, but i think i'm not his ideal dream partner too, he..he..so we have nothing ideal. As long we are understanding each other and can go through this life together which is good or bad, we will survive. Good Luck and happy mylotting:)

You know, all my boyfriends before are the exact opposite of my husband. They were all tall, outgoing, mature, possessed strong personality, independent. I don't know how it happened that I ended up with someone I really never imagine that I'd marry. He's not that bad though. he has his good sides too. It's just that in totality, he represented the exact opposite of my ideal man. i think God knows how to match people. If I was given to marry somebody with the same personality as I do, i guess we wouldn't have lasted for 8 years. What's important though is that we must be appreciative with what God has entrusted us. Life is really unpredictable, but we just have to accept that all things happen for a reason.

It is absolutely true that no one is ideal, I would not find the man that I love him more than myself as it will be very tired as his every manner will affect you. You will live in a nightmare that you've got to lose him that make your nurve crazy.

Yes, I believe I have got the dream partner and I got more than what I expected. I never cared much about how rich the person is or whether he is having a prestigious job or not when my parents were looking for alliances. But, I wanted somebody who is understands me always, takes care of me, accepts me as I am, and feels me special. I am lucky that I got a person like that. Thank god!

I know my boyfriend for more than 3 years now and if this question is also address to me then I would say that no one is ideal but we learn to accept the differences of someone we love and cope with that in life together with them. He is not the one I dreamt about but he is the one who is very good in real and I have chosen to live in reality that in dream though.

Nobody is ideal and having that expectation can only lead to disappointment. I guess you just need to weigh up the good qualities of someone against the bad and decide if the imperfections that stop them from being the ideal partner are dealbreakers or not.