Are you concerned about the shape of your tummy?
By daliaj
@daliaj (5674)
India
September 7, 2009 7:38am CST
I care a lot about it. Whenever I see a pretty girl in movies or shows, my eyes go to her tummy first. I appreciate if a girl has a pretty flat tummy. I daily do stomach exercises and maintain mine even though I have a pretty good one. 
What about you?
What about you?8 responses
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
8 Sep 09
What a great fun seeing this discussion at the first time!I haven't thought about that someone will care about his tummy before and I never heard about tummy exericises either,I think it's really funny for me.I misunderstood that you have a really big fat tummy and you have to make it smaller doing the strange tummy exercrises everyday!haha...
Yes,I think this is very important to catch a pretty girl,letting her know your excellent body.I don't have one as good as you,and I think I will try another way to attract girls,for example,my eyes...haha...just joking...
beeduzhe
@daliaj (5674)
• India
9 Sep 09
Lol. 
I enjoyed the joke. As far as I have seen I think the first thing a girl will notice in a man is the shape of his body. If a man look at a girl his eyes will go to some other parts and he will say a girl is pretty if she has a beautiful face. Fitness is important for men.
I am trying hard daily 10 minute in the morning and 10 minutes in the evening to maintain my tummy. You don't have to spend a lot of time working on reducing your time. The important point is whatever you do, you are doing it continuously and with the good effort.
I enjoyed the joke. As far as I have seen I think the first thing a girl will notice in a man is the shape of his body. If a man look at a girl his eyes will go to some other parts and he will say a girl is pretty if she has a beautiful face. Fitness is important for men.
I am trying hard daily 10 minute in the morning and 10 minutes in the evening to maintain my tummy. You don't have to spend a lot of time working on reducing your time. The important point is whatever you do, you are doing it continuously and with the good effort.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
7 Sep 09
That's good... I have two children and I maintain my abs flat as I used to be. I dont like to see those either. So, congratulation to both of us then... :)
@daliaj (5674)
• India
7 Sep 09
Hi friend! I am happy to hear that you maintain a good tummy after two deliveries. My hearty congrats! I just got married. I have seen that many of my friends are having big tummies after delivery. It is ugly to see a woman with big tummy. Thanksf or the response.
@luminousent (64)
• United States
7 Sep 09
It's hard to take care of your belly after having babies. I have 4 myself, I think natural childbirth really helps, c-sections cut right through your muscles. That is what I have noticed with friends and family. After a couple of surgeries to fix a few hernias and have my tubes tied, it was so much harder to get in shape and it took longer too. It is well worth the effort for health reasons and energy as well as attractiveness. Although, my kids say fat people give the best hugs. lol.
@vinslounge (1295)
• India
7 Sep 09
Yes, I maintain a flat stomach and I do 15 minutes rigorous exercise everyday for my tummy alone. If I stop exercising, I would again regain my old fat tummy and hence I am taking good care to see to it that I maintain a flat stomach. Thanks for posting the discussion and have a great day. Happy Mylotting. Cheers:-)
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Sep 09
Yes both men and women with protruding tummies look very awkward. Luckily i have a flat stomuch. I used to play a lot in school and college, so even if i remain idle i dont get a bulky tummy. Its funny to see men look like pregnant women with their tummy walking well ahead of the rest of the body... lazy fellow get such'shapely'tummy thx
@daliaj (5674)
• India
7 Sep 09
I also think it is funny to see those men with big tummies. I don't understand why they take it serious and work out to reduce it. Mostly, middle aged or old men don't care about it. Some people think that it is a symbol or richness. I pity for them. Thanks for the response.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
9 Mar 10
Hi daliaj
I envy you very much as before my second childbirth, my tummy was good and flat but after the second childbirth, though I tied a cotton saree very tight and even used a abdominal corset, I developed a belly. This may be due to looking after the entire house hold work all alone including the bathing of the new born by sitting on the ground as we do not have any facility in our rented house and from washing the clothes, vessels to bathing the baby should be done by sitting on the floor only
as before my second childbirth, my tummy was good and flat but after the second childbirth, though I tied a cotton saree very tight and even used a abdominal corset, I developed a belly. This may be due to looking after the entire house hold work all alone including the bathing of the new born by sitting on the ground as we do not have any facility in our rented house and from washing the clothes, vessels to bathing the baby should be done by sitting on the floor only@daliaj (5674)
• India
5 Mar 10
Oh, really? Thanks for your response. I thought tummies that are not flat are big turn offs and ugly. It is intereting to know that there are people who think that slight bit of meat is sexy. Hope you won't think this way because your's is not very flat. Just kidding. I don't have a very flat one, but I am trying hard by doing exercises everyday to get a flat one.
@yogambal_64 (1014)
• India
7 Sep 09
I really envy those who have flat tummy as now my tummy is little big and looks really awkward. I do not exercise regularly as I have back pains and so my tummy is really causing concern to me.
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
7 Sep 09
I don't care much about tummy but i do think keep a flat tummy is important not because it makes you look nice but it means you are more healthy than those with a fat tummy. My eldest sisiter has a very big tummy and i always ask her to pay some attention to it whenever i see her. I would ask her to do more exercise but she is just too lazy. I very appreciate your hard working on how to keep a pretty good tummy for yourself . Good job.
