Do you wear ring? Gold, Platinum, Silver or Diamond?

Your nephew must be very romantic. I bet the event was so sweet.

Dear Carol, It is so sweet to hear from you again. I can imagine how beautiful and sparkling your engagement ring..great job for a great idea - soldered it inside the diamond ring guard. Excellent I do not have a proposal ring nor an engagement ring. I do have a wedding ring. How I wish I can turn back time and make him kneel down with a bouquet of flowers and a proposal ring ... My nephew proposed to his girlfriend last Valentine Day. He secretly arranged a holiday at a villa where they first time met. On the Valentine Day, while having the dinner, he sang a love song, kneel down with a diamond ring and propose to her in the eyes of so many diners that night. How romantic! Thanks for sharing your wonderful story, I really enjoyed it very much.

Dear Carol, He is the most caring and thougtful person in the 'Hng's family. He will bring his parents for overseas holiday every year. I still remembered when he was just 8 years old. WE had a local excursion to Penang Island. One evening, we have our time on our own 'free & easy' to try the local food there. Since his parents was not well that evening and rest at the hotel, I and him go for dinner at the local stall there. We ordered the same food. His food arrived, since he is a small boy, I asked him to eat first. BUt out of my surprise, this is his answer...it is still fresh in my mind :~ "Aunty, you eat first..because I can eat very fast. No worries, you go ahead"..he is so thougtful! Cheers..

Yeah, the ring we have for each other have name engraved. Hub's one having my name on it. I miss wearing that wedding band, just try to fit in just now, it totally couldn't be wear anymore. How sad. Hopefully in one of our coming wedding anniversary we can renew for another new band. Btw, I love all your topics created It is so nice and easy to reply. Keep it up, will participate more. Happy Mylotting!

Dear lemonjude, So sweet, you got diamond ring as a gift after you give birth. It is definitely a 'wonderful' feeling to be love and appreciated! I am so happy for you... By the way, does the wedding ring that you wear have your spouse name engraved on it? Mine, yes...my husband name was engraved on it. That is why he likes to joke: saying that I am wearing his ring...because is his name on it! Thanks for sharing, truly appreciate it!

Hi Iri! I completely agree with you that wearing ring could cause more harm than good.

Dear deepak, Actually wearing the ring and carrying heavy load against it is bad, the ring got scratches and our finger's bone..or tissue will be wounded too. At times I do feel the pain on it. So, I no more wearing it at home unless for some functions Wearing a ring is quite inconvenient for works, and as responder no. 26 mentioned it might carries bacteria and virus with it too! Thanks and do keep in touch :)

Dear meapas, My 2nd sister believe in astrology, numerology and any 'logy'. So, one fine day, he met an Indian astrologist from India, he too recommended my sister to get a gold ring with a special stone on it. Since my sister do not have enough cash, she lied to my mum that she needed the money for some courses for promotion. After taken the money, this special customised ring taken weeks and weeks to be ready. So, my sister had no more patience. She insisted me to call the astrologist...at last she got it. Wear it for nearly a year, nothing good happen. She gave up and sold it to 'Cash Coverters'..I guessed! Then she back to believe in God and surprisingly she got promoted and promoted and promoted till today! Just change a new car and a latest cell phone. I do not know how my mum know about my sister lied to her....she advised her not to simply believe all kinds of 'logy' and grow up and be 'logical' That's the story of my sister and her 'stone' ring! Thanks for sharing your story, really interesting, hope you will be happy too even without the ring :)

With or without ring I was and am very happy. I can't say about tomorrow. My priest friend is still trying to get me some magical ring to better my business. I have run into a huge financial loss over the years. That is the only problem. There is no shortage of happiness in my life. All my relatives are well placed in life. We all have a very good bonding. Many of my relatives came forward to pull me out of this financial mess but I want to come out on my own. I know I can and I will, come out of it on my own.

Dear meapas, You are very lucky to have very good and supportive friends and relatives. I like your determination, I believe in you, you will surely be able to come out from those financial problem of your business. You just need to hit one good project that can have a very goo profit margin and long term business.. Good, see you at the TOP! If you believe you can, you will surely CAN...go for it, all the best! Thanks and I am glad you share it with me... Take care and God Bless you!

Lucky it was not raining and really thank God for that, and your hubby...

Dear corrycrystal, Thanks for your prompt reply. Truly appreciate it :) Yes, I really grateful and Thank God for it Btw, what is your childhood favourite cartoons then and now? Hope to hear from you on my latest topic of discussion. All the best and God Bless you!

Dear corrycrystal, Wow, your story of the wedding ring really keep me in suspense as I read further. Thank God it is safe in your jewllery box. I can imagined and felt the 'panic' you go through at that moment. I have a pair of my favourite silver-like earring. I like to push my hair backward at times. So, one day in a hurry while crossing the road, one side of the earring drop off. It is a busy road, I try to find it under the hot sun but in vain. As I reached home, my husband just came back for lunch. So, I tell him about it. He went and try to look for it at the place I described to him. To my surprised he went there and look for it. I think God bless him because of his 'thoughtfulness', suddenly the sun shine brightly onto something that reflects back...it is my eaerring under a parked car tyre.... I think this is the only thing that is 'sweeet and thoguhtful' that my hubby did... Thanks for the special story of the ring...truly appreciate it. Do keep in touch and happy myLotting!

Hello Iriene, I think my hubs will happy to see this comment from yours and your compliments, . He isn't so thoughtful as you mentioned! I kinda forgot how he purpose for me but I was happy to see the diamond platinum ring. But I do remember he bought the ring for me on my birthday, and it was considered as a birthday gift and a engagement ring too! He saved some money, LOL! I was happy too This is because he never like to buy platinum jewelry as he claims that buying platinum is not a good invest! He prefers gold. So this platinum ring is quite meaningful to me as this is the only platinum jewelry he gave me, was his first time bought a piece of jewelry that is not made of gold. My hubs is actually in insurance field. He is from Great Eastern. If you have any queries about life insurance you may let me know. PM me if you need any service from him, !

Dear Vingyan, From what I read in your discussion, posts, comments and response..I find that your husband is a very loving, thoughtful and caring husband and father. You are very lucky to find your the other half. I would say he is a perfect husband. You all have engagement ring and wedding ring. I do not even has a proposal... How I wish I can turn back time and make him kneel down with a bouquet of flowers and a proposal ring ... My nephew proposed to his girlfriend last Valentine Day. He secretly arranged a holiday at a villa where they first time met. On the Valentine Day, while having the dinner, he sang a love song, kneel down with a diamond ring and propose to her in the eyes of so many diners that night. How romantic! Btw, what industry is your husband attached to? I am curious because he is very thoughtful and caring! My hubby is the 'tidak apa' character and 'whatever will be will be' type! Thanks and do keep in touch!

Dear zandi, Wow, you are ranking 18 out of 34043 in 'people'. Great job, keep it up So sorry to hear that you have lost your wedding ring. It is allright since you have replaced it. Anyway, the love, trust and happiness that matter the most! The price of gold has increased substantially since 911. I still remembered during my wedding, the gold cost RM40/gm but now it is like RM98/gm, I heard it went up as high as RM120/gm. (Exchange rate of USD1 = RM3.5). It is good that you love gold ring, it has resale value compared to platinum. Thanks for sharing, truly enjoy reading your post...cheers!

Hi Iriene, am not even aware that am placed in good position in people. Thanks for the info. I need to check that out.

Dear Cupid, No Ring, no chain, no necklace, no band or bracelet! But I thoug you always carry the 'bow and arrows'.. That's cool, nothing to bother you at all, the 'free' spirit and be yourself, your 'signature'! In actual fact buying jewelleries and wear them do pose some danger and risk especially nowadays in Malaysia there are so many snatchers. They like to pull the necklace especially those office workers who take public transport to work in the morning and back to work in the evening. Thanks for sharing and take care, do keep in touch!

No, we did not have our names engraved in our rings. We did think of doing that but for some reason we did not.

Dear happy, Looks like all of us have to start to wear ring (like it or not) after we got married... By the way, does the wedding ring that you wear have your spouse name engraved on it? Mine, yes...mu husband name was engraved on it. That is why he likes to joke: saying that I am wearing his ring...because is his name on it! My wedding ring is gold and a plain one with two ring lines. Simple...we prefer simple ring :) Thanks for sharing, gald to hear from you. Do keep in touch!

Dear submerryn, Wow, both of you also have such special agreement! That's great, I like it! So, may I know do your diamond wedding ring had your husband name engraved on it? My husband like to joke with me that the ring that I am wearing is his because has his name on it None of us wear it unless to official gathering.. Thanks for sharing and cheers!

Dear shuetyeng, Many thanks for your response, glad to hear from you! Wow, you belong to the modern generation, going for the platinum wedding ring...cool! According to myLotter Linjinmiao (response no. 26), a doctor...the ring might carries bacteria and germs. I think it is good that we all mums do not wear ring since we always handle young children whose immunity is low. Better be cautious... Platinum ring looks class and not so obvious. For ladies, normally we like platinum with diamond on it...LOL It seems a diamond shines brightly when match with platinum! Cheers and take care!

Hello Iriene, I am not sure whether I am belong to modern generation by choosing platinum wedding ring, but I guess platinum is more suits my skin complexion. If I am not wrong, gold accessories is more suitable for lady who has tanned skin? Most of my wedding gift are gold accessories and they all are now kept in the safe. Of course gold items are more valuable than platinum. Platinum with diamond...I should have choose one but I did not. Love is blind. When I was choosing the wedding ring, I just care to protect my husband's money, do not want to burn a big hole in his pocket. Now I am regret! LOL. Thank you for the info about ring might carries germs. Now I know why wedding rings cannot be worn into the operating room. Anyway, have good day and Happy MyLotting.

Dear sweetshalini, May I know what is a 'navaratna ring'? I do agree with you, wearing rings and do houseworks is not encouraged. At times when I washed my hand with bar soap, the soap stuck within the ring. Have to clean it thoroughly. According to a doctor, response no. 26, mentioned that rings can carries bacteria too. Thanks for sharing and do keep in touch!

Hi, Sorry for late reply, this week rather busy! Glad to hear your views on this topic :) I have a ring with stone and another one with starfish design. I wear it when I have functions. But at times it scratches my face So, I have to be very careful when I wear them.. therefore I prefer to wear plain ring too, just like you Thanks for sharing, take care!

Oh! Too busy... I mostly see your discussions either in the hot tab or in the today's tab and then respond it. I missed your discussions in both the tabs for 3 days... Hope you finished your work well.. Have a great day.

Dear Lin, Welcome to myLot, I am glad to hear from you Yes, you have a very good point there. Wearing a ring is quite inconvenient for works, and as you mentioned it might carries bacteria and virus with it too! Platinum ring looks class and not so obvious. For ladies, normally we like platinum with diamond on it. It seems a diamond shines brightly when match with platinum! Thanks for sharing, and do keep in touch!

Dear Mitraa, Thanks for sharing such a valuable information on gold. I never knew that gold being a yellow bright metal, is effective for good and a glowing health, if it is used in contact with our body. I must start to wear a gold earring, for my health. By the way, does the 'Q' has any special meaning , is it related to your name? Any special significant? All the best and do keep in touch!

Hi, You got a silver ring on your left thumb. It is so nice of your sister to give it to you, great bonding! In Malaysia, I noticed many Malay man also wears ring on their thumb. I wonder is there any significant why? Silver ring is very popular in Malaysia too. It is less allergy...keep it up! Thanks for sharing and cheers!

Dear zhuhuifen, Wow, what a fantastic feeling to have found the diamond ring on the floor. You must be overjoyed to see it sparkling... Many Malaysian kept their gold jewelleries in the bank's safe or in built-in safe at home. My wedding ring is gold and it is a simple plain ring. My hubby's ring will have my name engraved on it, then the one I am wearing got his name on it:) Thanks for sharing, truly enjoyed reading it..

Dear desteny, I totally agreed with you :~ 'I rather get it when he wants to get it with out me telling him.' My husband is 'blur' or pretend to be 'dumb'. I hinted to him before that I like a beautiful diamond ring that was on display in a jewellery shop which we always passed by there. It was on a fantastic offer like 60% off. I can afford to buy it myself...but it won't have that 'special touch' So, I had this 'cold war' with my hubby. He said buying platinum diamond ring is waste of money, it is the worst investment because diamond value will drop, moreover the platinum have 'zero' resale value. But to me is different case, I am not selling it, why I bother about resale value...it is SENTIMENTAL VALUE to me. So I cried for nearly a month, so he gave up and brought me there... The ring was no more there, some one else has bought it. So the lady boss suggested to me to 'special order' with similar design. It became more costly...my husband have to charge his credit card on it... You know what, I hardly wear it because it only reminds me of my one month tears not the romantic moment and sentimental valeu... So, wise up and be happy...

Dear msfrancisco, I love swarovski crystal too. I bought swarovski pendants of many shapes like the heart shape, starfish, crescent, snowflakes, etc. I lvoe earrings but most of them are costume jewelleries... I totally agreed with you, wearing those favourite accessories really make us feel 'different' and happy! Thanks for sharing and do keep in touch!

Dear Jackie, Why bother with all this rings and expensive jewelleries. Wear it when we need to, that's cool, I like it! In actual fact buying jewelleries and wear them do pose some danger and risk especially nowadays in Malaysia there are so many snatchers. They like to pull the necklace especially those office workers who take public transport to work in the morning and back to work in the evening. Thanks for sharing and take care, do keep in touch!