job interviews

United States
September 7, 2009 10:38am CST
I wasn't sure in which category I should ask that question maybe it belongs in a different category but I needed some answers and would like to have answers from a large group of people with different view points. I've done some research on job interviews. What I have noticed anything I find in books point out to write thank you notes after the interview. Also, when the interview is over to tell the person that you will call within a week to find out if you had gotten the job and more less be really really pushy in order to get the job. Statements such as I know I will be the best fit for your organization, or if you give me a chance you will not regret it etc. Now, when I research job interview on the internet it doesn't tell you to mail thank you notes, nor does it tell you to be really pushy. If anybody is in a position who is doing the hiring for their company or anybody who has been to recent interviews and gotten hired I would really appreciate some advice. Thank you
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
7 Sep 09
Hi ellaprice, it's a long time since I needed to attend a job interview so maybe things have changed or you have a different way in America but I've never heard of the concept of writing a thank you note and wouldn't think it would make any difference at all except to give the impression of being a bit desperate. The situation always was that they would get back to you and you just have to sit it out and wait.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Sep 09
Though a thank you note can sound desperate it also lets them know that you are willing to and want to work for them. They may think it a nice gesture rather then desperation, and if you have a nice resume to go with it, it would make little to no difference if it was a desperate attempt or not... your resume is what shows your qualifications.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Sep 09
I wouldn't doubt that an interviewer would make a decision so soon... and again it wouldn't sway their decision to not give them a job in that respect... but it may make them consider a different position or to keep their file for a different opening... I don't know how much true it is for the employer's to make such a quick decision here in America... I would hope not so quick that they hadn't thought it through, but I wouldn't doubt it as I said before!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
7 Sep 09
I believe research used to show that the interviewer makes a decision against someone within the first few minutes so a note of thank you is not going to change their mind. But as I said there may be a different way of going about these things in America today.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Sep 09
hi ellaprice76 I am retired but to me if you are really pushy 'all you do is irritate the interviewer.he will see you as over'anxious and not self confident. no be yourself and be' confident. know you can do the work and explain why you feel this is a good job for you. do follow up in a week of course.'one thing to do is look professional. no tight clothes beach attire and lazy time clothes.business looking clothing, and minimum make up. YOu are looking for a job, but not as a hooker.smile and be at ease.
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• United States
9 Sep 09
Thank you Hatley I agree with you about being to pushy ends up irritating the interviewer. I don't understand why some of these books give the advice they give. Reading through some of these cover letters stating things such as, I'm the person for this job, I know you will not go wrong with me, I'm as excited about your companies further goals as much as you. I guess it comes down to they must like me and I must like them.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
8 Sep 09
not had many job interviews, i've not heard about doing a thank you note. they should be writing one to you instead. being pushy, doesn't get you far, interest in the job will do better. my interview for the job i've got now was turn up and learn how to do it. apart from the fact my boss had asked round wanting someone honest and reible. so here i am. then you don't want to get us all started on my partner, that's a case of not what to do. to get a job.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
9 Sep 09
nah my boss would be picky to an extent. i was lucky enough to get the house on the farm, after a while. been here for nearly 4 yrs now.
• United States
9 Sep 09
That is great and every manager wants someone honest and reliable, though what one person think what reliable is, is different from the other. One person thinks reliable is showing up on time is reliable the other person thinks as long as I show up I'm reliable. Maybe your current boss that do many people thinking that just showing up makes the reliable.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Sep 09
I would not recommend being pushy but sending a thank you note, and telling the person to whom you were interviewed by that you will call within a week or even asking when should you call would be better! Saying things such as "I feel confident that I will be good for your company" is also a good thing to say but only say that when they ask you... Some intereviewers will ask "what do you feel you can contribute?" or a variant of that question so then you can implement the statement I said earlier which is " I feel confident that I will be for your company" and then add "this is why" and explain some of your skills, etc as per your resume or job experience. Just be polite, Keep eye contact, and be and sound happy. SMILE! If your going for retail do not be shy, even if that's your way... remember, your not only going to be dealing with the boss but customers too! With the example of retail, I want to add that different lines of work require different ways of going about your interview. Though their are keypoints and guidelines that cover every interview, you've also got to keep into consideration that some employers do not like Suck ups.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Sep 09
Agreed! It may come off shady for a person to not make eye contact but I would guess that it would take the person looking around a lot to make the interviewer nervous and / or weary!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
7 Sep 09
And always maintain eye contact is about the best tip there is to make a good impression.
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• United States
9 Sep 09
Well, reading through the responses I'm starting to think the heck with being so nervous about going to an interview, not that I have on lined up however when I do I will be myself. I will do my usual joking around just to ease my nerves. If they can't handle me being funny then I wouldn't enjoy working there. Of course I'm not going to act like a clown but I have to make sure that I don't end up in a really stuck up environment, if been in one before and I didn't like it.
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@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
8 Sep 09
employers often use thank you notes and entertainment to please the hearts of the people who do not get jobs with them after such interview, it is quite pathetic that the same people who just waste peoples time and may vene tell them they will call them back only to forget them after the interview
• United States
9 Sep 09
Well, I'm not sure how I feel about the calls telling me that I didn't get the job. I remember I gotten such a call once. It was early in the morning I was sitting at my kitchen table drinking coffee and readying the Wall Street Journal. The headline stated that the company who had just paid for my flight to their headquarter a few days ago was filing chapter 11. When the call came in and I was told I didn't that they decided to go another route I wanted to know if they hired someone else of if they were cutting back, I didn't get an answer other then that they were going a different route.
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
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• United States
9 Sep 09
I'm not sure if I would be interested in something like that. They always tell you wonderful stories upfront.
• India
8 Sep 09
I don’t think being pushy or sending thank you notes are going to be any more beneficial for you than the actual interview. I have never been pushy and have always waited for that call and whenever the interview ended with ‘we’ll let you know’…I have always known it to end there. If you call innumerable times after that, all you’ll hear is that no decisions have been taken and you are simply wasting phone bill. Sending thank you notes are not that pushy and might just keep your name in view if you are not in the first selected list and the company is looking for second options.
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
7 Sep 09
ellaprice76...I can give you my thoughts on what I thinks will work. Maybe something will help you out. I was told once from an manger of a store that he never knows when someone is serious about wanting the job. There is so many people out of work and some don't really want to go back to work. He said that the ones that call him back do a check up is the ones that he knows that want a job. So therefore I believe that if you do a call back after an interview that it will show that you are indeed wanting that job. Good luck and have a nice day...
• United States
9 Sep 09
Interesting I didn't think that managers would have difficulties these days in finding good people but I guess it is an ongoing problem for them. Then again some people are getting so depressed of being without a job they may blow the interview because they have already given up.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Sep 09
When it comes to be going to job interviews, I try to not be pushy, which is very hard when you are desperately looking for a job. I will, call a place and follow up a few days after I've put in my resume via the internet. And then after I've had an interview I will call and follow up a few days later. When I have the opportunity to have an interview, I do thank the interviewer for their time because I know that they deal with a lot of people and many of those people aren't gracious for the interviewer's time.
• United States
9 Sep 09
The calling for me is similar as the thank you note. I now think sending an email after the interview is ok the whole hand written thank you note is overkill unless I apply for the head organizer of the local woman's club made up for all these old ladies who still wear these beautiful hats and cloves for their afternoon tea parties.