Memories of a good friend..............................

Yes I have had friends that I have cut off communication with or lost touch with... Here is one example; my god parents and I got into a huge fight about my ex husband... Lost contact for a good 6 or 7 years... I was angry and also felt bad for cussing them out... Then out of the blue I called them.. well actually I called and then hanged up.. They were not home a lot of the time, and I felt weird about leaving a message... Then one day I finally got someone to pick up the phone... It was my god mother.. She was actually really excited to hear from me.. I told her that I was sorry for cussing her out... Come to find out she did not even remember what I said... Our relationship is not as close as it once was.. but it is still there... I guess if this friend of yours really means a lot to you; it might be worth picking up the phone and just say hi... Granted it is not nice of her to accuse you of stealing... But maybe time may have healed some of those wounds... But I do not know how badly your friend hurt you... I guess if it was really bad... And would not listen to what you had to say; I guess the relationship was not as close as you thought.. sorry to say it so bluntly.. Good friends find a way to work it out...Its accepting the past for the past.. And moving on to the future... It all depends on if the both of you are willing to do that... Good luck

I have had many friends I have lost from moving around alot. Some still keep in touch adn others I just lost along the way . best to just remeber the fun times and go on

Hi there, Old days friends and memory attached with them die hard. I can feel how badly you have missed those days now as you look back and your friend. May be this the ultimate charm of life as at least once you lived your life to the fullest. Who knows what the morrow brings. It as vivid and a nice read.

celticeagle, i have a friend who'e now living in canada. we became best of friends when we were in college and got separated when she went to canada for good. it was only in 2007 after 16 years when we had the chance to meet each other again. i was in washington, dc then, when she and her family attended a conference and we took that opportunity to see each other again. she and her family stayed in my apartment and we had all the time for ourselves. they stayed with me for almost a week. we had fun... we eat out, tour the place, malling, and had our moments of reminishing our life way back in college and it was full of laughs and tears. i miss my best friend so much. we don't have communication right now... i know she's busy so busy with life and her daughter who has special needs too.

I have had a friend, who was my closest friend at college, who pretty much cut me out of her life and I never knew why. We never had any big argument, but then it wasn't like we just grew apart, either. She would say that was probably the case but she quite deliberately backed off from our friendship. When I moved to America, just before I went I contacted her and said I would like to see her before I went (I was permanently leaving the country to get married in America) and she said she 'didn't have time'. So that told me!

Yea, having the memory of a good friend brings the friend almost back to life. IT'S A VERY GOOD THING

Hey celtic! Yes, I have lost contact with some of my friends from my past. One of the friends was my best friend for 45 years! But, it was her actions that made me break off our friendship. I had problems with her for many years with her attitude that she felt she was better than everyone else and treated people badly and had a very nasty arrogant attitude about her. I just got tired of her abusive mouth and finally I broke off our friendship! She was devasted because she never thought that I would do that to her! I haven't spoken to her now in about two years. She has called me, but I don't respond to her phone calls. She made me very angry so that I don't feel badly anymore for what I did because she left me no choice.

i have a good friend,maybe the best one i have met,we together since primary school,then junior high school,senior high school,we are in the same class all the time,what'more,we have similar hobby,and our appearance are even similar,many strangers even think we are twins..... now he has graduated and i still study in college,i know he is a talent and one day he must be famous because of what he does in IT-industry,i alway trust!!he is a good example for me and i will also study hard to be a capable man

Memories are one which makes us laugh attimes, nothing is permanent in this world. But i would say that memories stays forever and ever. Memories are of two types i would say Good memories and Bad memories. Bad memories doesnt give happiness to us, it just make us angry or boring by thinking of that, at the same time Good memories make us think about that person or those persons more and more, we start realising our mistake at times.

Well, yes, I have that memory. We were in the same college, and after we got the job, we were very close. We went everywhere together, laugh and cry together, we were chums. But years after years things became different. Another person was behind us and did nasty things. She got mad at me, so did I, and I hated her so much. It was a few months before her wedding, I was invited, but I didn't come because I was too mad and we didn't really talk anymore. Now both of us are married, and live in the same old lil town. It's funny because we never 'accidentically' meet at all. It hurts, even now after 2 years. All I can do is move on, eventhough I'm kinda scared to have a close friend now. Losing a bestfriend is traumatic for me. So if you have one, stick to him/her, because you may not find another one. Best friend is very hard to find, be grateful if you've find one