what is that you dislike in life?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
12 responses
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
8 Sep 09
There are many people that I don't like very much. Most of them are people who have hurt my family and are rude/ bad mannered or take advantage of others.
I am a civil and respectful person. I can be respectful for the sake of peace but that doesn't mean I like the person again. It just means that I don't want to stoop down to their level and become like them.
Attitudes can change over time but I want to change for the better and not for worse.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
yeah, you sound very practical. It is difficult to forget the hurts made by others. Time can alone heal the hurts.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
Yeah that is right rgo. I do agree that attitudes may change over time.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
8 Sep 09
well, i just think that if you dislike someone, you're the one who has a hard time, not the person you dislike. So, youre the one who suffers more. Why let that person have that kind of control over you? So as much as possible I remain neutral or I develop apathy towards someone I don't quite like very much.
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@satan88 (584)
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
8 Sep 09
I try not to hate anyone but there are a lot of bad people out there trying to take advantage of you and there'll be a lot of people who will be mean to you and try to take control of your life just for the fun of it. I guess the only people i really hate are soulless scammers.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
Yes, satan, some people take us for a ride if we are polite and friendly. It is difficult to be friendly with them. I just try my best to avoid them than to pick a quarrel.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
8 Sep 09
well hate and disliking are two completely different things...i don't hate anyone, just dislike a few people, dislike in the sense i completely ignore them and don't want to talk to or do anything with them... well there are not many people i dislike, just a few people, i generally dislike people who are egoistic and all proud of themselves and who boast, i can't stand them, ok if you are this and that but do you have to show it and boast about it? can't you just keep going and the people will all recognize you themselves
There is no need to redirect the smoke if people can see the fire already
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if you are good at something people will come to know of it themselves there is no need to show it to someone.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
Very well said voldrox. you know, if a person is really good he will not boast unnecessarily. When you are really good at something you will not try to prove it to the world unless it is necessary.
@SuperJelly (320)
• Malawi
8 Sep 09
I dislike all those who pretend to be what they are not. Changing attitude towards them is on condition that they change their way of life.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
Hello Vijay,
So long,good to see you back my dear brother.
No particular person that i ever dislike.But generally i am upset with people who were doing bad things to other people.Just like what happened to my friend who asks my help last week.She was cheated by her business partner,it was such a big amount of money.She trusted that person and given a big amount of money for their business partnership.And one day she wakes up with nothing,as if she lost everything in a snap.
I hate people who look down other people like dirt,i wish to punch that person who discriminate others.I want to give a straight jab to people who under-estimate others,as if he/she is the only intelligent person.
I just don't like bad people,and i can't control my anger when meeting people like that.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbdown.gif)
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
dear, your anger has valuable reasons. I feel sorry for your friend. take it as a good lesson in life.Never trust any one unless he/she is really worth. If you can't access a person, then better not trust any body, that will be safer for you.
Jaiho, I have given you the link for N0 8 person's numerology details in another site. Hope it will be useful to you.
here is the link again: http://vijayanths.blogspot.com/2009/05/are-you-born-on-8th17th26th-then-this.html
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
thanks for visiting my blogs dear jaiho. keep visiting your brother's blog until you visit my home, hehehe.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
They give respect to elders, the educated and intelligent people. Generally they want to live in peace. But life will not let them live so. They will get into some problems or other many times in life. They are not cowards. They don’t like fights, yet they will not give up a fight until they win .If their friends and relatives fight, they will go forward and pacify them. They will achieve what they want. For that they will pay any cost. They want to succeed well in life. They will make continuous efforts for it though success does not come to them that easily.
good riddance whew !!! never thought of this![](/Content/images/emotes/wink.gif)
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@rajalakshmiu (30)
• India
8 Sep 09
I hate betrayal. I hate pple who betray. I'm not the kinda person who puts up with these kinda stuff
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
yes, betrayal is unbearable. But it happens often. What to do? we need to cope with such situations and move on.
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
8 Sep 09
ya there so many things in life which i would be glad to change.but basically the thing which i dislike most is the fixity and unpredictability of some situations but i guess they are meant to be like this to add spice to the saga which life is.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
yes, neomatrix, life itself is a game of unpredictability. That adds charm to life, otherwise life will be boring.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
13 Sep 09
I am just one of those who like humanity but don't like people
some people I know why I don't like them, some people I just don't like
I might change my attitude but there is no guarantee there
@grecychunny26 (9482)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
i dislike and like challenge in life. I hate when I have a problem and I am on my way to solve it then another problem will come and another and another. This will only prove that life is full of problems. But come to think of it, in every problem there is a certain solution, so now the real statement would be, life is full of problem with solution. Eventhough I dislike problems in life, I still appreciate life. I amnow more focus on solution rather than complain about life. Life goes on no matter how hard the situation is. You must learn to remember to ask the help from God, he listen to us always and will give us what we really needed.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
19 Sep 09
Hey,
I don't really dislike anyone in life, I have never really ever had a grudge against anyone. At times times their have been moments where someone has said something bad to me that made me feel angry, but that is about all. Make sure you have a good day, Happy Lotting!!
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
crimes and violence against women and children, racial discrimination, poverty, corruption and genocide which are very rampant in other country. in person, behavior like selfishness, dishonesty, nepotism, unfair treatment, racism, abortionist and those who never believe in God.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
wow, that's a big list of dislikes but all are very meaningful. We are truly living in a ugly world. But what to do, we have to live good in this environment. I do have a list of things that I dislike. I dislike wasting others' time, those pretending to be honest and good, greedy, cunning etc..
@prinzcy (32303)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 09
Being a normal human, I dislike a lot of people. Some with valid reason to be hate for years. I do change my feeling for some over time. As time passed by, I did lost the hateful feeling and feel nothing to a few. When I meet that person again, I seem to be able to chat like nothing happen (that is until he/she start to show his/her real color again and I hate him/her again)
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Sep 09
Great, that shows you are becoming more and more matured as you age. that is a good sign of development of mind and soul.Ver good prinzcy.
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