Multiple Marriages....

People are not as tolerant as before. We speak up for ourselves more. Especially the women. In the older days it was a sin to get a divorce. Men did not want a women who had had different men. All this has changed when reality took over. It is a fact that people change through the years. When you can except your partners change and or you change together, there is no problem. But lots of times the changes are too much and the partners cannot live together anymore, then it is time to move on. It is sad, I myself thought I found the right man when I was 18. I was married for 9 years. Since then, I have never gotten married again. I am afraid to. I like my freedom. hahaha!

O.o maybe my view is naive but i would like to say.... ;p it takes two people that really care about each other, that the relationship is styblied by gaining something out of it..... but more like from just enjoying each other's company? What i see relationship starting for wrong reason, which lead to some bad things ;p.... TOO much EYEING/Looks than what kind of person is... or just because they look cool or have money etc.... Well personally i say go for it take it a shot, and before u do just make sure the person you marry you willing to sleep next to at night and wake up to them in morining and still be able to smile, and say "I am lucky to have you" =P

Older generation people were caring a lot about family responsibility, and consequences of divorce. The females may also be restricted by their financial status. Nowadays, people more or less tend to follow their feelings, and may feel they can find solutions to their children, if any. Personally, I think one has to think more carefully before marriage. It is important to find the right person, be ready to accept his merits and demerits, and also his background and family.

i think your opinion is wrong. i am married and it has nothing to do with havibg duties or contracts.its about the fact that we love each other and plan to be with one another no matter what.if you dont like that,good for you.

I really love your discussion. I too am wondering why many people have this multiple marriage. They say that you should choose a partner well, because that partner that you are to choose is going to be with you for the rest of your life living here on this planet. It seems to me that the saying is already antique and not being used nowadays. I guess that these people are now trying a new method and it is called trial and error. I know that this sounds crazy, but it is the real deal and we have to face this. I may not be agreeing to this multiple marriage because it is so against the law of our God, and the thought of having so many wives, no offense to the Muslim because it is tolerated in your religion. I just want to point this out to my fellow Christian that they should be aware in the Law of God and not take it for granted. You know clearly in your conscience that it is very wrong and you should prevent and avoid it as much as possible. Aside from it is a waste of your time and effort and love. It is also a waste of money. This is all I can share and my opinion to multiple marriage. I hope I am not hurting anyone. This is just an expression of mine. LOLZ.... XOXO

Hi, Now-a-days the mulitple marriages culture happening just like that only.This is because of way of living style changes and culture and generation gab also. The most valid reason, the people do not want to adjust with any one or anythings. Just what ever they want to do, they do. but this will not work in after a marriage. Our indian culture is going away because of this

I personally have been married and divorced twice. My first marriage was to someone about 4 years younger and from England. We did love each other but I think there were just too many relationship barriers as we were from 2 different countries (he believed it should be one way and I another). My 2nd marriage he was 9 years older, he ended up being deceitful and a cheater. So that is why it happened in my unique situation. I have since found a wonderful man whom I wish I had found earlier in life as I can tell in the time we have been together that we would have lasted a lifetime and he has even said the same thing. However, in todays society I feel that a great many people are just getting married either for the sake of saying that they are or for all of the perks that married couple can get. That is just my opinion and I am sure others have different views.

Hello, Previously during our grandparents' time the women only take care of the home and the children. They are totally dependent on their husbands for financial and emotional (if there is) support, so divorce is very low. Because of this dependency, the women would stay with their partner even in an abusive relationship. It has nothing to do with love. Maybe for some but not all. I have a friend whose grandmother seek divorce after all her children are grown up. She now lives with one of her children. So for her it's from one dependency to another. Nowadays, because of education and better opportunities, both men and women are financially independent so if a married couple find that they don't get emotional support from their partner, they'd just go their separate ways and get a divorce. It doesn't matter if you're young or old. It's all about the things that you don't get from your partner.

personally, i still think that is so here in our place. although there are really exceptions to this but only quite a few. i had been a widow for almost 6 years now and marrying again may have come to my thought a couple of times in the past but as i see it, i think i am enjoying myself in this state again ... blessed singleness! yeah, i don't need to adjust to someone else's temperament, seek his opinion or his permission on things to be done and i can just go anywhere alone. let us admit that even if married, there are times that we want to go out alone. in short, it is spelled i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-c-e! (although i must admit that being alone with children to care for has its bulk of disadvantages, too!)

I don't understand it either. I just think people are more selfish these days. I blame it on western individualistic culture. And while i'm at it i might as well blame the media since they're everybodies favourite scapegoats.