Husband/wife as friend
By ladygator
@ladygator (3465)
United States
8 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
9 Sep 09
my wife is my bestest of friends, we share everything and talk about everything.
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Its nice to see a response from a man. That is lovely to see here that you see her as your bestest friend. I like to see stuff like this as I often wonder what the husband thinks about his wife as far as the terms of level of actual friendship.
@much2say (55276)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Sep 09
Oh yes, I do consider my husband my very best friend! In our late teens, we used to work together and talked for hours on end . . . and our friendship eventually turned into love. Years and years later, we decided to get married and have a family . . . and yet I still consider him my best friend. We had great communication from the beginning and have always strived to keep things out in the open . . . it's always been that way and we think that's been the key for our excellent relationship (among other things)!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Sep 09
hi ladygator yes indeed myhusband was first mybesfriend and second became my lover.a wonderful combination as he loved me unconditionally with warts and all. that was more than my own family ever did for me. witha best friend husband youcantell him anything and he doesnt get angry with you. we had such fun and I miss him even after all these years.
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
21 Sep 09
That is heartwarming to hear Hatley. My husband and I were friends first for quite some time before we even went on a date. Yet there was always something special there. I was not sure what it was exactly since I was not very attracted to him in the beginning. Not that I didnt think that he was a very handsome man. But I felt completely safe with him. Now I have the whole package. I am glad that you have such wonderful fond memories to hold of him.
@cjfoust (614)
• United States
9 Sep 09
I do consider my spouse my friend. After 5 years of marriage and being together for two years prior to that, he knows more about me than anyone else. I wouldn't say exactly everything, but definately more than others. Before we were married I use to consider him my best friend; however, my feelings have changed on that. Before we got married and had the stress of real life (bills, full time jobs, responsiblities, etc) things were a lot easier. We are still pretty close and sometimes I think that's what keeps us going.
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
21 Sep 09
I can totally agree and empathize with you on this. Things were so much easier before all the real life stuff huh? I have some really tough times sometimes. But he is my best friend and I am pretty sure that we will always be there for each other no matter what we go through. And there have been some doozies so far let me tell ya.
@ashbelx (92)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
That's a good question girl. This is the problem between me and my husband. We're absolutely two different people. Our hobbies don't match. Our likes and dislikes are just different. We differ in almost all things. But know what, we still find unity in the midst of diversity.
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Yes, that can be tough at times. We have many things in common and that keeps us enjoying things together and then there are things that we enjoy separate. One of the huge differences is that we have different parenting beliefs.
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 09
Oh, absolutely. My husband is my best friend. We are each other's best friend. I do have many friends and there's no one I can trust as much as I do to him (even when we're still dating!). It's one of million reasons why I fell in love with him. We have our secrets together, sometimes he accompanies me to the salon, another time I accompany him watching soccer match. It's fun, we're chums!
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
21 Sep 09
That is such a cute love story. It is so nice to see especially in the middle of so many problems with people staying married to the same person and carrying that love, honor and respect.
@worldbestwriter2008 (1633)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
i am not yet married but i have know such couple who they consider themselves as bestfriend..beside she is my officemate..as if they are just boyfriend and girlfriend...the sweetness they had is still the same now that they are already married..they live a happy life..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 09
off course i consider my wife (now iam single, not married) as my best friends. she is my best person do know about my, myself, my hope,my big ideas, my wishing, my fear . she accompany me in 24 hours and i accompany her too. she and me complete each other. i think it is a sweet things that i can be done with my wife someday. i hope