abusive Marriage?

It depends on what you mean by abusive. Some people are just takers and you either put up with their moooching or you move on. I have never been hit in a relatiosnip but I have had people yell in a loud voice around me or just not be very loving. It is hared to find a good relationship where everything works right.

Hey just so you know yes there is hope. I have had many bad relationships i would say there abusive others do not seem them as such. I had a previous girlfriends mum hit and scratch me and i could not hit back as at the time i was staying in her house on the sofa. I have had partners stealing off me, usin me for money basically everythin you can imagine. BUT my friend do not get down i have now found my soul mate and so i can say to you stay positive you will find the right person just be patient.