have you thought your first love will always be your eternal love?
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13837)
Philippines
September 9, 2009 4:56am CST
I thought that the first crush i had will last forever and will be my forever true love. I just learned that feelings change a lot and that we may not stay in love with the same person forever. sometimes that our emotions our playing with us cause what we thought will be forever will last only for such a short time sometimes. though i still my first love. what about you, do you still miss your first love.
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5 responses
@wongyitchew (23)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 09
At first, for the first time you had a new feeling for your first love. Yes, you would think she is the only one in the world, but deep inside we have a lingering feeling that she is the first of many to come. Yes, true enough a few did turn up. The good feeling is that you can manage the events evenhandedly, ie be fair to them and yourself. I married one of them,(36 years already) but very recently I had thoughts of one of my old flame (not the first love). Wow, the fire is still burning (like the California fires currently). Feelings for one another do change (or shifted), hopefully, the feelings remain good feelings, not necessary mutual.
YitChew Wong
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
with my first love i never thought of wanting to have more crushes. what i just wanted is to stay with his person forever and not to be separated even for a second. LOL. but after i see some other people that attracted me more things easily change. ha ha.
@med889 (5941)
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9 Sep 09
I also thought my first love or crush will be the eternal one but gradually I came to know that this is just the beginning of the emotional life and then hopefully the first crush did not last forever because I would have miss many beautiful things in life too.
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@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
yeah our first crush does not seem to last that long specially if that is not love at all or just a crush. what i hate is getting stuck with one person to be in love with someone that won't love me back. i got stuck before with one person and it made life miserable but i was an adult by then and many crushes has passed before this person. anyways, sometimes some crush or love is harder to forget than others.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 09
First love is the sweatest love but more often first love do not have happy endings. Fate has it that there is someone out there meant for us. What ever happens to first love, the memory of first love remains strong in the heart.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 09
I have never thought that far. By that time I never realized that feeling was love. I think I like him, enough to feel good and happy around him. I never further my thought to marriage and life together forever.
I hardly remember my first love. I doubt he remember me. He's married now anyway and I have my own love life.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
yeah, i didn't know what to call the feelings i had before. but i thought i would have it forever inside of me. looking back, i don't know why i had those feelings at all. i am not proud nor happy with those feelings i had before. i am ashamed actually of myself of having those puppy love. why did i become a victim of those feelings. seem we can't really help but go through those phase in life.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
yes, we always thought that best thing to happen is to end up with our first love. but thankfully that is not how life works. even if we don't end up with our first love, there are stll better things in life we will discover in life.
