Are You A Silent or Noisy Type of Person When You Have a Problem??
By rberon1985
@rberon1985 (5359)
Philippines
September 9, 2009 8:52am CST
I was just curious on what type of person are you whenever you have a problem. i just became curious of this because of one of my officemates. She actually of the quite employees that we have in the company. Very few times that she mingle with us. We are just surprise that this morning, she now belongs to the one of the noisy employees in our company.We ask her why?She answered"every time I have a problem, i am very noisy. Instead of feeling pity to her, almost all of us laugh
because we are new in the way she acts this morning.
With me, whenever I have a problem, I don't talk to anyone. I am just in one corner. I just want to be alone. So i belong to a silent type of people if there is a problem. What about you?How do you categorize yourself?
because we are new in the way she acts this morning.
With me, whenever I have a problem, I don't talk to anyone. I am just in one corner. I just want to be alone. So i belong to a silent type of people if there is a problem. What about you?How do you categorize yourself?3 people like this
22 responses
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
9 Sep 09
Hi rberon.
I am also a silent type of person when I have problems. I don't usually talk so much when I feel bad. My wife can tell that I don't feel good and have problems, because I am normally talkative and with a sense of humor. She can easily tell, just by looking a my face, that I have problem with my internet connection, because I will not hold on to my phone and will stare, sitting still.
But when I feel bad and angry of something, you can easily tell that I am. I wil go blah blah here, blah blah there. I will not stop blah blah until I tell my anger to someone, like my wife or a dear friend.
Neil
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
What is good among us guys is we know how to control our emotions than girls, most girls keep on talking and talking and talking, which does not give positive output. We guys knows how to handle problems.happy mylotting!
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
"But when I feel bad and angry of something, you can easily tell that I am. I wil go blah blah here, blah blah there. I will not stop blah blah until I tell my anger to someone.".This part of your response made me laugh.lol. What you are doing is your own way to ease your pain. That is actually effective.That is releasing once emotion in a particular situation. With me, i still prepare to be silent or to be quiet.
. What you are doing is your own way to ease your pain. That is actually effective.That is releasing once emotion in a particular situation. With me, i still prepare to be silent or to be quiet.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
9 Sep 09
My attitude doesnt change because I dont like to show my problems on the surface. I take time to think about my issues but i dont take them out on others.
At work, when I have problems, because I am an executive, I handle them to the best of my abilities. I dont vent or lash out. It's hard but I remain friendly and courteous so I don't trip switches to make people think im not okay. I try at least.
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@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
9 Sep 09
WHen i have a problem or im upset Im quiet..AT FIRST..then I end up telling someone.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
"then I end up telling someone." We almost have the same attitude. At first, I just keep it to myself. I just keep quiet. Think of solutions to the problem. But if I can't control it anymore, I am already sharing it to the closest person in my heart. On that case, I am able to ease all the pains that I am experiencing. thanks for sharing.happy mylotting!!
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
"On myLot I talk about them too much. Seriously sometimes I do discuss problems here to help me figure out in my head what I think about things." It is really nice to share our problems here in mylot. It is not only one person who will help you but all the members around the globe. I can see and feel the sincerity of the advice given here in mylot. Members are very helpful. Every time that I just log in in the site and smile can already be seen on my face,happy mylotting!!
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
Hi there, well i am silent type of person, so other person who doesnt know me well misjudge me because of this. Well i just want to say that i can be talkative to people that i really know but still i find myself silent type i am much enjoying this attitude and i hope theres nothing wrong with that, keep on mylotting
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
"Hi there, well i am silent type of person, so other person who doesnt know me well misjudge me because of this." we cannot blame those person who misjudge us because they are aware that you are not like that. They know that you are a talkative person. Thanks for sharing.happy mylotting!!
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
i am the type who goes... gggrrr... bowowow!!! meow! mmmeeeehhh!!! bbbrrrr!!! lol! which sums up to what? a very noisy talkative person... but i do have my limitations!!! i just goes like that when needed and if i can still have it for myself i rather have it within me for a moment. but if i cannot hold on much longer... oh!!! h*LL yEah!!! nothing can stop me now!!!
jhelai
which sums up to what? a very noisy talkative person... but i do have my limitations!!! i just goes like that when needed and if i can still have it for myself i rather have it within me for a moment. but if i cannot hold on much longer... oh!!! h*LL yEah!!! nothing can stop me now!!!
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
First of all i would like to congratulate of your cute smiley on your avatar!lol
"i am the type who goes... gggrrr... bowowow!!! meow! mmmeeeehhh!!! bbbrrrr!!!".You are actually the first responder who answered the noisy type person whenever you have a problem. No wonder!lol!Most of the time, girls are really noisy type person whenever there is a problem.It is already natural to all of the girls. Admit it, because it's true. We, guys we know how to control oue emotions. lol!
"i am the type who goes... gggrrr... bowowow!!! meow! mmmeeeehhh!!! bbbrrrr!!!".You are actually the first responder who answered the noisy type person whenever you have a problem. No wonder!lol!Most of the time, girls are really noisy type person whenever there is a problem.It is already natural to all of the girls. Admit it, because it's true. We, guys we know how to control oue emotions. lol!@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
oh! its not that we cannot control our emotions as well but we just like to let it out. because it is a very healthy thing for us to do. anyways, i dont say we are not like that but give us some dignity here.. hahahaha! no really guys are the type who always hides what they feel why we always blah blah blah when we are really in a state of eruption!!! but not all the time. because i am also good in controling my feelings as well.
jhelai
no really guys are the type who always hides what they feel why we always blah blah blah when we are really in a state of eruption!!! but not all the time. because i am also good in controling my feelings as well.
jhelai
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
I am more of a silent person when I have a problem. I usually just stay in my room when I am at home or stay in my office. With these, I can think well on what to do how to resolve the problem. There are times when the problem is personal, I usually share the problem to my wife. It is great when you can share it, it will certainly lighten up the burden and then someone can also give you a suggestion on how to solve the problem in the best manner possible.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
"I am more of a silent person when I have a problem. I usually just stay in my room when I am at home or stay in my office.". You are the 6th responder of this discussion and also say the same thing. You are also a silent type of guy whenever you have a problem. you are correct in saying that this is the better way to think solutions to our problem. thanks for sharing!!have a great day!
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Well, it really depends on the problem I have. When it's too personal I belong to the quiet group. That I wanted to be alone and fix my problem all by my self. I often look blankly at one point or another. But when I can share my problem with some one or some people, I really have a non stop mouth talking about the problem and annoy my friends sometimes because I keep on saying my problem to them..
... But eventually when I already have a solution to my problem, I'm back to being normal once again...
... But eventually when I already have a solution to my problem, I'm back to being normal once again...
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
I think i am also like you, I prefer to be alone and I do not like to disappoint people if I do not respond to them. It's better for me to take a meditation, relax and pray, hoping for a solution. Once, I found it, it easy for me to let go of my troubles..
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
"It's better for me to take a meditation, relax and pray, hoping for a solution." .It's good o hear that you are doing these things for you to resolve your problem. With me, the first thing that I do is I pray. i am asking for guidance. Second, i go to some places where I can ease the pain or will let me feel comfortable. Most of the time O go the seashore. I talk to the waves, sometimes I shout at them. After that I felt so comfortable already.And the third one, I log in to mylot and ask advices to the members of the site and try to weigh alll the advices given to me. happy myloting!!!
.It's good o hear that you are doing these things for you to resolve your problem. With me, the first thing that I do is I pray. i am asking for guidance. Second, i go to some places where I can ease the pain or will let me feel comfortable. Most of the time O go the seashore. I talk to the waves, sometimes I shout at them. After that I felt so comfortable already.And the third one, I log in to mylot and ask advices to the members of the site and try to weigh alll the advices given to me. happy myloting!!!
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
I am more of a silent type.I prefer crying quietly when I have a problem.I either stay in my room to cry or think things through.I would like to vent my problems in non-destructive ways.sometimes,I do think of funny stuff to make me laugh and forget my worries.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
I am basically a very quiet person. Sometimes, I would not talk if no one wants to talk to me. I am not the type who would initiate a conversation. When I do have a problem, I am more quiet. No one would really dare talk to me. I would rather keep things to myself. I do know that it is not a good thing to keep it up with yourself, that it is good to confide it with someone else. But for me, I wait until the pain eases out before I would talk.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
"I am basically a very quiet person. Sometimes, I would not talk if no one wants to talk to me."The responder, me and you has the same feeling whenever we encounter problems. I am actually a jolly person, my friends are no longer surprise whenever they see me very quite in one corner. they know that i have a problem. what they do is they try their best to talk to me and comfort me but I inform them immediately to leave me alone. If i can't take the problem anymore, that is the time that i ask their assistance.
The responder, me and you has the same feeling whenever we encounter problems. I am actually a jolly person, my friends are no longer surprise whenever they see me very quite in one corner. they know that i have a problem. what they do is they try their best to talk to me and comfort me but I inform them immediately to leave me alone. If i can't take the problem anymore, that is the time that i ask their assistance.
@picjim (3002)
• India
9 Sep 09
When i have a problem i'm the silent sort of person who thinks what could have caused the problem.If i'm in even greater difficulty i seek the opinion of few people whom i trust .And then i'll try to tackle the problem differently.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
"I seek the opinion of few people whom i trust ."
Its really good to ask advices to the persons whom you really trust. in that case, you can weigh all the advices that they have given and you can already arrive in one decision. Most of the time our problem is being solve because of our helpful friends. We should really thank them for everything. We are the same, i am just silent, try to think on what solution I can make for me to solve the case. happy myloting!
Its really good to ask advices to the persons whom you really trust. in that case, you can weigh all the advices that they have given and you can already arrive in one decision. Most of the time our problem is being solve because of our helpful friends. We should really thank them for everything. We are the same, i am just silent, try to think on what solution I can make for me to solve the case. happy myloting!
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
whenever i have a personal problem, i stay quiet at the workplace. i just work quietly and i don't have the energy to mingle with others.
but when someone picks me or annoys me at a time that i am in a bad mood because of a problem, he will surely get the attention he deserves ... i will surely end up in disagreement.
i know it is a bad attitude ... just telling u the truth. but i have to say that i am trying, yes trying, to control this.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
"but when someone picks me or annoys me at a time that i am in a bad mood because of a problem, he will surely get the attention he deserves ... i will surely end up in disagreement."Oh! this statement of yours is so scary. So no one should make a joke on you whenever you have a problem?Is that right? I will understand your case if in case, I made a joke in you then you have a problem, but if the case is not like that, we already have to talk about it.lol
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
hi rberon1985!
when i am mad i tend to be quiet and tend to be noisy. there are times when i wanted to express how i felt on a certain situation, i talk because the more i keep it inside me the more it causes me much more pain. but when i don't feel like talking i keep myself quiet..
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
I am a quite type of person when it comes to problem. Most of the time I don't want to talk to anybody until i cannot fix my emotions. Better yet to go inside the room and stay there all day or night long without company who disturb me. I don't like to talk.
@bloodcakelover (420)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 09
I like to be on my own when i have problems.I dont like being bothered and im am not in the mood for chat that time.I am a quite person and i will be extremely quite if i have problem too.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
I belong to the silent types. When I have a problem, my friends would know or guess immediately that something is bothering me because I always become silent. I usually brood when I have a problem. I also usually detach myself from their conversations. Sometimes, I become distracted when they are talking because I keep thinking about my problem. I always feel restless and uneasy until the problem goes away.
@mrshughes (352)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
If i have a problem, i am very quite. I like to be alone and i don't like talking to people. I listen to music and just relax if i can. If i am working...i keep myself busy all time.
@LissaLovesYou (30)
• Uruguay
10 Sep 09
I'm weird .
I'm extremely social, i love people, i make friends easily and i love to talk, yet when i have a personal issue or problem i keep it bottled up . I love to help other people with their problems though, i've had people i just met come up to me and tell me EVERYTHING, and i honestly have no problem with that, i'm actually considering becoming a phsycologist (SP?) . I guess, to answer the question, whenever i have a personal problem i'm guarded & will keep my feelings inside, but if i have a little problem (like, i don't know, my computer broke or something .) i'll shout it to the world .
