Married but childless!

hello, I dated with my husband 3 years before we got married, and now married for 3 years , i mean we are together 6 years, We don't have kids yet, we both are 32 years old, i hope we will have a kid before my 35-36 because after this age it would probably be hard to be pregnant . The reason we dont have kids is i am having some hormonal issues too. Some cysts, but with some medication it will be fixed. Hope you get well soon

You have to have faith and keep on praying. I've personally got two children, but a very close friend of mine has been married for five years and doesn't have any as much as she wants a child. She's been pregnant several times but she miscarries every time that she is pregnant. Also, has your husband been checked as well because if the two of you are trying to get pregnant and the doctor says everything is fine on your end, there could be a problem on his end that is making it difficult to get pregnant.

Haven't been praying for children at all. We can't have children together, and we're just fine with that. We are not interested in having children. Hubby has children from a previous marriage, and they are grown, so we are not interested in having children together. Some childless married couples are happy that way.

all I could say keep on trying and praying. Eventually it would comes on the right time as you says you are perfectly normal to get pregnant. I know a neighbor who adopted a son for being hopeless to bear their own child, But after 10 years, the lady got pregnant and it;s been a blessing since then, they make sure both are healthy and maintain having good communication with your doctor.

I know the kind of situation you are going through right now. I also went through the same situation. We got married in 2005 and had our first baby in October 2008. We received all sorts of ridicule from church members, friends, relatives (close and distant) and neighbours. All of them could pull jokes which added more pain in our life and sometimes I would come back from work full of anguish. My wife too would come back from work crying. Sometimes we would sit down and question God why He allowed this to happen and why US? Did God forget our faces in His presence? We both underwent several medical tests and all that docs would say was "WE ARE ALL FINE, NOTHING WRONG'. Pain, misery, anguish went on until when my wife conceived in January 2008. I know it hurts so bad. Those people who pull jokes about childlessness do so because they do not know or understand the pain you go through at that particular moment. Many questions race up our mind why sometimes some people conceive and end up throwing the baby in a pit latrine while others so desperate fail to conceive? I learned alot in this experience and would like to offer some advice which I cannot manage to explain here. I also can recommend some books on this topic. Just drop a message in Mylot messages (in my message box) and please include your personal email address. Thanks.

Unfortunately, I am one of those women. Married for five years already, still no baby yet. I really wish to have one the soonest. I'm 32 and not getting any younger. Our situation is difficult, no one understand us except those who are in the same situation. I pray that God will grand us a child soon.

I had trouble getting pregnant because I have polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS). I was put on Clomid and Metformin at first, from my regular Ob/Gyn. After 6 months of this not working I was sent to a fertility specialist. I was taken off the Clomid and put on Fermara. The specialist increased the Metformin. I had to have a hysterosalpingogram to check for any blockages in my tubes. I also had to have ultrasounds on certain days of my cycle. This was to make sure I was responding to the medications. After the first month of seeing the specialist, I was pregnant. Not only was I pregnant, I was pregnant with twins. I had trouble conceiving my first child. He is now 7. After a year I was put on clomid and 3 months of taking the clomid I was pregnant. Be patient and relax. I know it's easier said than done.