does breaking up really solves the problem?
By allyjiang57
@allyjiang57 (7)
United States
September 9, 2009 12:23pm CST
my 2 close friends just broke up lately. They dated for a year and 5 month..to me they seem like a perfect couple but apparently every great relationship is never perfect. I felt like the relationship should end like that because they look so miserable right now....the worst part is that their classes are next to each other...my guy friend think that she's not giving him enough space ..he said that she gets really insecured about their relationship. Do you really think breaking each other's heart really solves the problem?
4 responses
@maui_gomez_lim (1017)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
The tendency for girls is to get clingy at times and I think its quite normal expecially if the guy doesn't commit anything (marriage). And its pretty normal also for girls to get insecured over the relationship as she does not have the assurance except for the "love" that the guy profess. It's just a matter of telling what you feel with your partner or having constant conversation regarding the relationship. Breaking up doesn't solve anything except for you won't be nagged anymore. In my opinion, the only reason to break up with your partner is when you don't love him/her anymore. I believe every relationship problems has a matching solution. 
@allyjiang57 (7)
• United States
9 Sep 09
wow dam ur good at this...i know my guy friend still loves n cares about her...but he just can't take it anymore....i told him to take a break n think about it...but he doesn't want to do that..instead he chooses to break up with her!
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
19 Sep 09
Hi,
No I don't think that breaking up actually solves the problem. In actual fact I think that it almost worsens each others heart, and breaks each other, because I think that both of them feel the pain, not just one of them. Make sure you have a good day, Happy Lotting!!
@med889 (5940)
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11 Sep 09
It is surely not the first solution in life for any relationship, they should be considerate enough to give time to think about the relationship they both share and to talk about it so that some solution might come up. So they should to talk to each other intelligently instead of always finding faults and discouraging.
