How would you feel when everybody else knows and you're the last to know?

Hi Alicia. You're right there to say you would feel irrelevant and unimportant. That's how i feel right now. You might notice that this discussion is still connected to the previous discussion I posted. Yes still has to do with mother. In fact, we her children, are the only ones who haven't been told. She is about to be married. So what does that make us? Floral decorations? I'm the only one who knows among her children (and she doesn't have a clue that I know) so that that makes it doubly or even triple the pain learning why this is happening. Ughhh!

Hi tamark. Your mom is already old. As in 'old'. Do not feel so upset with her. Try your best to understand her. Her mind-set is already different from yours and your siblings. Forgive her if she is hurting you. Tell her you have learned about her plans and be open about your feelings. That way you give her the chance to open up to you. Try not to be upset when you tell her you already know about her plans.