Believe in, Waiting for a destned love, looking for love?
By Xzcess
@Xzcess (174)
India
September 10, 2009 9:07am CST
Ok, so as far as the topic of 'Love' is concerned, almost every one has their unique story to tell. Every one believes in different things. but as far as as i have seen, apart from little clusters of totally different opinion, most people can fall in either of 2 categories. So, how about you, Do you ...
a) Believe in destined love. The 'perfect' person is 'bound' to come along eventually.
or
b) Believe that you are going to have to go look for the that perfect person, believe there is a fair chance of you never finding that perfect person and in that scenario you are going to have to make do with whatever it is that you have in place of your 'true' love.
As far as I am concerned, I think i believe in b) more than a). -nod- .. what about you ?
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4 responses
@dasiejanie (590)
• United States
10 Sep 09
I believe thee is someone out there made just for another, and that some how they'll find each other.
@Xzcess (174)
• India
12 Sep 09
Even though I find such a concpt strange, but I must admit I know many who believe in this way as well .Some very happy couples claiming they were 'bound' to be together and fate had a big role in them meeting and getting to know each other. and that is precisely why I posted this discussion. To know what others think about it.
Thank you DJ. Take care of urself (:
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
10 Sep 09
Hello Xzcess...I don't believe that if we just sit and wait, the perfect love will come along and "find" us.
I do believe that we can search for love as we go about living our lives, for that is how and when we meet people, yes? And we are then apt to find love.
Good questions, by the way :)
Karen
@Xzcess (174)
• India
12 Sep 09
Hello (: ..
Exactly. That sounds somewhere along the lines of what I believe in. You have to make an effort .. to get to meet new people and then to get to know those new people better. Then only you will meet someone good enough for you that you are ready to spend your whole life with him/her.
Thank you.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
It depends on the person experiencing it. some believe it's destiny and some prefer that it's the people we choose based on what they think they're comfortable with. I do believe, but you must have faith and effort at the same time
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