Bestfriend to lover then back to bestfriend all over again.

@resssaaa (445)
Philippines
September 10, 2009 11:07am CST
What does this mean? We didn't get along well lately and pretty had heated discussions about lots of things even if they're not supposed to. Do you get what I mean? I mean its like since you're always fighting all the time you developed a kind of feeling that overwhelms you and makes you mad even by the simplest things.I don't know I can't explain in earth talk sorry lol :)) Well the point is now He wants to be back to being bestfriends cause he's tired of the relationship for the reason that it does not work out. BUT, but he still loves me and vowed that it will still be only me.(that's cheesy :p) He just wants a rest on the commitment because us baring the commitment makes us have the authority over each other which causes a lot of disappointments and fights which hurts us both emotionally always. Nothing change though, well some changed like the fact that he doesn't get mad anymore by the things he used to when we were together. Maybe this is because I have and he has no right anymore but still I miss those days when he has every inch of time for you it just makes me feel sad right now and I hope he'd come back. Does this mean he still wants to be together again? yeah i know not now, but someday? I hope. :|
2 responses
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
Having that kind of relationship is so hard to fix anymore. You both couldn't be HONESTLY be bestfriend again after being lovers. I just can't imagine it. Maybe, if both of you will pretend that things are back to normal, then good for you..
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
It's just a cool off, I think, otherwise he won't suggest back to best friend again. There's always hope for you to be lovers again, you only need space. This time you can do adjustments, you may learn to correct each other's mistakes. By the time both of you realized you mean for each other, the relationship is much smoother, no more fights and no more misunderstanding. So much better to be bestfriend again than being strangers to one another. I wish you good luck and both grow for the better.