Do you have the same experience??

ei dear, i hope u're doing well. no intention to offend u but optimistic in what aspect? because i dont think that you'll be posting this issue right now if there is optimism. dont feel sorry that u dont get easily attracted to anyone. most in my crowd, including me are still single and available, LOL. and we enjoy being that way for now. well, long story. i hope u try to appreciate little things that come ur way. just keep your doors open. take care! :)

I know how you feel. I have added you as a friend. Maybe we can have a chat and perhaps I can help you.

no, i don't have the same experience like yours. i'm very optimistic also and i love socializing to other people. i think the problem is with you. maybe you're not open to the possibility that you can be in love with somebody with just a simple spark. frndzb4 i think you need to lower down a bit of your standards so that people will feel that your heart is very much open for new relationships. aside from that, you need to be aware of the impression that other people says to you so that you'll be able to know what's really wrong with you in others' eyes.

I'm not facing the same--I have a great girlfriend. But I know where you're coming from and I've been in a similar spot. While I'm not opposed to online dating, I know other people who are. Just make sure that you keep getting out with your friends and meeting new people whenever you can. Go out to a social event and start talking to someone and get to know them. You can meet a new partner any time!

you should do this first thing that is to love yourselves, you should love your body,you mind,your all things are belong to your things.when you are in the difficult time, you should put all thing on your yourselves, and should scold yourselves for all-power man, and do not ask for all-side beautiful things, you are in the state of nothing to do, then you should lie in such this state,you are in loving your own live, in itselves.if you are feeling lonely. the important thing is to do love yourselves,have a try, then you are in the refresh one agrain.

You don't have to be so discouraged, maybe you didn't see the person right for you although it is near you. This happens so often...you look at others without suspecting that your "soul mate" is somewhere, in that crowd. I guess that if you have patience and look around you more carefully you'll find the right person for you. It's never too late, just be more careful. Always there's somebody who admires/loves in secret. But it's also important to be that kind of person you wish for. To me it didn't happened this way, I don't know how or why but the person to whom I was attracted at a specific moment, felt the same way as I did. This happened always...I've tried everytime to be honest with myself, to know exactly what I want. And when you're sure about what you really desire, and you search it you'll find it. It's simple. It's not about how you look, but how you see yourself through other's eyes. I've always told myself that I like x and that would be normal if x would like me too. I can't tell if this is the key to my "success", but for me it did worked. And it's still does.

hi frndzb4, Attraction at an early age comes neat like a peg of whisky. Thereafter as time passes ur identification of desirable qualities all collect in a corner of ur brain and create a package full of fantasies. There are too many checkboxes for any candidate to tick yes to. And so confusion is obvious - which should I compromise, and which I shouldnt. For whatever it is worth, now let a person who likes u for what u r, in whose list of checkboxes u seem to have ticked most "yes", take charge. At least he seems to know his mind. Eventually, even u will know the way automatically, and in due time, u will find attraction as well minus its fantasy covers.