what do you think of bully?
By sushisarah
@sushisarah (186)
Indonesia
5 responses
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
11 Sep 09
Hello my friend
Good to be able to say I don't have this problem, even in school when people bullied others I would step in and put a stop to it, one day in school I told a bully to get up so I could beat her up lol she refused after that the class was no longer afraid of her, and her bullying days were over. some times you just have to show people that most of the time their bark is bigger than their bite.
Thank you.
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 09
Hi Kitty thank you for responded in all my new discussion.
You are right, Kitty. Hey bullies, highlight this 'their bark is bigger than their bite.' Do you know why, Kitty? Because their boldness only until words. They don't dare to do action, because they are afraid, they know they are wrong, but they know it's fun.
It's like a delight for them,so they can't stop. I am sure if they read this, they will be angry. They don't feel they are bullies, but be angry. What do you think of this, Kitty?
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
11 Sep 09
Hello my friend
You are right my friend, they are scared and only pick on people that will not call them out on their nonsense, you may have 1 or 2 that will actually fight you, you know who is who, bullies period have issues and if students will stay away from them and let them stand alone they will stop, as long as people egg them on that only makes matters worse
Bullies suck
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
20 Sep 09
Thanks Kitty.
But what if they chase you and won't stop till you hit the ground?
@mama_bear (1118)
• Canada
11 Sep 09
i do not like bullies, i have never been a fan. though i was an outcast all my life, but much to my credit when i was in the third grade i managed to deal with a menagerie of bullies in one fell swoop. i guess they all belonged to the same clan, and even as a kid i had issues and just wanted to be left alone. since these miscreants would not comply, i girded my loins and dealt with them by targeting their leader. i grabbed her by her scrawny little neck after assembly as everyone was filing out, held her against the wall and told her to leave me alone. that is all it took, and then before i knew it we became friends and i made her stop her bullying ways her and her clan.
almost same thing high school someone was spreading rumors about me and sullying my reputation. i told her i wanted to meet her outside the library after school so that i could kick her as* in front of the whole school and her friends. next thign i knew the headmistress had me in her office, tea and all trying to convince me not to kick said girls as*.
i do not like bullies and they need to be dealt with, but sometimes it is hard to, i just got lucky. my mother is very supportive, i remember that she told me that if the headmistress threatens to suspend or expel me i should tell her that it is all good my mother will send me to a school somewhere else.
@mama_bear (1118)
• Canada
15 Sep 09
ha ha i agree, bullies are cowards and they need to be called out on their bullsh*t. and the best thing to do is to target the leader, now it does not matter whether you win that particular battle or not, what is important is showing that you have no fear, even if you are totally scared. so long as you get in some kind of beat down. to show others that you are a wild card and that you will not put up with crap, you shall also get some respect from those around you.
i was lucky that my mother believed me because she knows how others can be, my sister is a crazy 'heffa" too she would throw down in a heartbeat for me and tell someone about themselves, she also gets pretty feral when it comes to me, even though she is like 5 foot nothing. i wish that i could be there or could have been there for your bullies. it is hard to stand up to a tyrant, but it is completely possible, you only have one life it is not a dress rehearsal and you cannot let someone ruin it for you or make you a victim.
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
20 Sep 09
Since a year or more before married i didn't retort to them. But their mom thinks i was bearting them when i bathed my child. I was yelling at my child. She was grabbing the soap. I believed if i want my family to be succeed i have to live in holiness.
Thanks mamabear.
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 09
The bullies acted nice in front of my mom, so that my mom didn't believe i was bullied. I know that's in their mind, to not let my family knows what they do on me. They do it secretly, because they are scared, they know they can never win if i involved my whole family. My family's opinion, especially my sisters, will be changed on them if knowing what they do on their sister (me). Because my sisters loves me so much and i loves them. Don't they think my sisters will greet them anymore when they meet them on the road after they know this matter. Right, bullies?
They just dare on the back, don't you think mama bear?
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@ladyhope (377)
• Canada
11 Sep 09
I don't think anyone will say anything other than bullies are sucky, but we do have to remember that usually, bullies are bullies because of some other underlying issues. Maybe someone else bullied them or maybe their parents were mean. With a little guidance and support from teachers, parents, or other students, bullies can change!
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 09
Yes, they can change. But what if their mom gives that sample to them? Can we change their mother too?
Usually bullies are coming from low education. Like not finished middle school or even just stuck in the grade school. So they feel can't do anything, have no skill, don't know what job to do, don't know or have no passion to study more, like facing an impasse or stagnation.
But if they are from high education level means their parents are acting hard to them or they are bullied in the college.
I don't know about this, am i right?
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
A bully is someone who shows being agressivenes and creates troubles for themselves and to other people. A bully is a person who lack attention and satisfy himself by being the center of attention..
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 09
I agreed with you, highlight 'a bully is a person who lack attention and satisfy themselves by being the center of attention'. They are not just harmful for others, but for themselves also. They feel not good after mocked other people, then they blamed other people for the bad feeling they felt.
I think they are aggressive, just like you said. And hellish, likes to see other people suffered. What do you think of their characters?
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
bullies only tend to humiliated and scare those who can't find against them. when that happens they tend to do that to you for the rest of their lives. that's why it's either to avoid them or show them what you're made of, by taking your stand against them. they have their own problems that they take it on some one else to see how they feel getting the pain, which i believe it ain't fair.