If your child makes mistake, do you beat them or just scold and explain?

I scold them and explain to them why it is wrong with what they did. I have never and will never beat a child for doing something wrong. That is not the way to punish them or correct them.

It depends what the mistake is, if its a mistake that could have really hurt them often I tell them off because it scares me and I worry generally though as long as it is just a mistake then i explain why they should not have done what they did and ask them not to do it again!

Well,i never bit my children yet and i think i won't bcuz my children is my part of my body,so if they get hurt i will get more hurt then them.I think by beating we cannot solve the problem,its better to explain them their mistakes with cool mind so that they do not make any mistakes.As far as your servant conserence,they are always in tension for their family,and so they cannot control their anger,so they bust out their anger to the children,they can't think what is good or bad that's why they do so,i think so.

hi buchi_bulla, that is correct your servent does know and she is not educated,tell her that donot beat the children and explain the mistake to her children,you can manage her,best of luck have a nice day

No I will never beat my children. Only cowards do that, and if any parents think they should beat anyone, pick people of your own size. Everybody makes mistakes, even us as adults. Beating the children will only teach them that violence in tolerable and I don't want my children to be violent. If they make mistakes, I will punish them, of course, by telling them to mop the floor or do the extra laundry. But, I won't beat them.

I would never beat a child. I would just scold and explain. Beating them won't teach them anything.

Onlyy a savage would beat another person!! What kind of person would raise their hand to another person? That is violence, and it is illegal. I would never hit another person, and nobody else should either. One should not hit animals either.

I don't think you should ever raise your hand to a child. It's setting a bad example to your child and sending a message that it's okay to use physical force to resolve problems. Children understand a lot more than we give them credit for. If you explain the mistake, they are able to decipher the meaning of their actions. It's always a good idea to take a deep breath and take a step back before you do anything.