Is it true that those who ignore you in public, fantasize you in private?
By aRiSdGrEaT
@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
Philippines
3 responses
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
I do not know but those who admire you tend to shy away from you and when you are not looking they secretly look at you and follow your every movements. Fantasy is different from actual admiration. Fantasy is a sort of things which are not real, something made up by your mind and you could not make it real, because you are hiding and always thinking of the object of your affection.
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@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
There are people who are stalker. They are afraid of the normal way of intruding himself or his own intention toward you. So they just stalk on you and dream of having you or anything about you. Fantasizing is a weird character.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
15 Sep 09
yeah, stalker make me feel lose my privacy and having fantasize the other person is I view as something not dangerous as long as you just keep it in your mind and never ever try to do or approach suddenly the person that he may misinterpret you as arrogant and the worst being a pervert.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
11 Sep 09
oooh I have never heard this before but it is a very interesting concept, one thing in human nature is a lot of people do try to hide insecurities and maybe this is what happens when people just don't have the courage to to let their guard down about their feelings.
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@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
Yeah, you are correct lilaclady. There are lot of people who are afraid or ashamed of making friends to others eventhough they really want to have that person as a friend. Insecurities is always the reason behind. They think of what may other people think or say about them.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
11 Sep 09
That sound scary
! It's like he's a stalker and I don't know what that type of person will do. It's better if he just being normal and not fantasize me in private (word 'fantasize' pop weird image in my mind~~~) I don't want to be near him or his fantasy. I am scared of him.
! It's like he's a stalker and I don't know what that type of person will do. It's better if he just being normal and not fantasize me in private (word 'fantasize' pop weird image in my mind~~~) I don't want to be near him or his fantasy. I am scared of him.@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
Lol. Yeah the word fantasy is very weird. You won't even know what more could he do if it is in the real time.
