what would you do if...
By akotalagato
@akotalagato (1334)
Philippines
September 11, 2009 6:09am CST
what would you do if you found out that your partner or husband has been cheating on you when he is on a business trip.
what would you do if a woman called you to ask if it is true that you and your husband are already getting a divorce..
what would you do if that same woman sent you pictures of your husband with that woman and a baby during its christening...
what would you do if your husband said sorry and would like to come back to you....
what would you do if all this happened to you?
3 responses
@med889 (5941)
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11 Sep 09
This is one of the most awful thing which can happen to a woman, if it happens to me, I think at first I will be very angry, I will never accept such a man in my life again because he has cheated on me, I mean how come he can do all these to do, as we have been together for long, so I will never accept him back again in my life, then I will cry also when I will think of all those years I dedicated to him and our relationship. I would have question him on the "why" and "how" because I need to know what he consider me for.
SHATTERED, furious, resentful, heartbroken, numb, humiliated, rejected, hurt, and NOT SAFE– these are just some of the feelings we experience when we’ve been betrayed.
Unfortunately, betrayals appear to be on the rise. It helps to know that we are not alone as broken trust is a universal experience. The human need to belong and be part of a relationship makes us open and therefore vulnerable to these painful emotions.
@akotalagato (1334)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
i absolutely agree. but in this event, will your love for him fade through all the anger that you are experiencing? or will your love remain even though you have been betrayed?
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
it's very common here in the Philippines, however, divorce was never approved here only annulment. mostly, women would really fight in order for them not to have a permanent separation and for their children not to grow up experiencing broken families. but when women or maybe a small number of men will decide to give up then that's the time when they file an annulment or just a permanent separation since annulment was considered to be very expensive and timely.
