Love or Marriage?

United States
September 11, 2009 1:08pm CST
My friend is married to a very girl he met in 2001. They have a cute daughter from their marriage. And now he is in love with his boss's daughter. He came yesterday and asked me what should he do. So guys what do you think he should do?
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good2go2001
@good2go2001 (915)
• United States
11 Sep 09
This is a hard thing to be involved with. Ive had friends in this situation before and have asked for advice. First thing i would do is avoid giving the "i think you should do this" response. Stay nutraul , coach him to wiegh the choices hes going to be making and how it will effect everyone involved. Im right now making the same choice in my relationship...married for long time but inlove with my Master and soulmate. If it wasnt for having children involved the choice would be easy.
someonee1234
@someonee1234 (19)
• United States
11 Sep 09
He is coming over tomorrow and lets see what he has to say. It is his choice and his life but I feel for his daughter and his lovely and sweet wife. They haven't done anything to deserve this. All I can say is step in two boats at once and you are doomed to sink. What do you think?
someonee1234
@someonee1234 (19)
• United States
12 Sep 09
True my friend. Love is a great thing but responsibility towards your family and friends should come first. People in ones life come and go but family is going to be with you forever.
Sissygrl
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
14 Sep 09
You should tell him that he should do what he thinks is right for him and his family. If he can't stay with his wife, then that should be for him to decide, you dont have complete knowledge of his situation i assume.. and if you do, its only one side of the story.. There are always three sides.. each persons and then the truth!
someonee1234
@someonee1234 (19)
• United States
14 Sep 09
good suggestion. As far as I know they both are in love and see each other everyday at work. I know it is his life and his decision. I hope that he makes a wise one.
EliteUser
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
19 Sep 09
Hey, Well if he wants to ruin his family including his wife and daughter, he can go right ahead and go for his bosses daughter. But it will be his fault, one day his daughter will grow up wondering who her father was, but it will be very sad indeed. Make sure you have a good day, Happy Lotting!!