Can you tell if a person is smart by just looking?
By patofgold23
@patofgold23 (5069)
Philippines
September 12, 2009 4:38am CST
looks can be deceiveing..
some people look really smart by the way they look... but happen to be "not smart' at all...
others look dumb..but turn out to be smart after all..
A person's looks/first impression may even have an impact when applying for jobs, etc...
But you wouldn't know if the perso is truly intelligent until you hear his ideas out, his thoughts...etc...
There are people that do look impressive...but once they start talking, the beauty ends there.
Can you tell if a person is smart or not by just looking? or you are often deceived by looks too?
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
I agree with you that looks can be deceiving. I can't categories if a persons look describe of his personality in terms of cleverness, being an intelligent one, being dump or whatsoever he/she looks like?
I don't know if there is a perfect terms to describe an intelligent people by its look. Describe a fool people or dumb head, by it's appearance?
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
yeah i know..it's really hard to tell..maybe you can get a hint on hwat the person is like..but it takes a good conversationto know one's intelligence..
see you around my good frined!
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
hi diamond... you're right about the motivation outdoing the mind...
no matter how smart a person could get, he wouldn't still achieve much in life if he is not motivated...
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
Well, now a days, you can actually judge a book by its cover. There are a slight few that can still surprise you with how their looks can throw you off.
Others who meet me at first think that I am a serious person who you can't joke around with but, as they get to know me better, at ease or get familiar, they realize that their first impressions weren't accurate at all.
I also see that possibility for those that I get to know. Even though I can slightly say what type of person they are or what kind of personality they might have, I don't totally leave it up to that but, I still try to look at not only their looks but also their actions.
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
Yeah, we should never immediately judge anyone that we get to meet.
Yes, its not always easy to do that since, we often get impressions immediately by the way a person looks and how they act in a given situation. Then again, we all come from different places so, what seems to be rude for us might be something as a way to show familiarity towards another.
If we can tolerate some of the things that we might say as their short-comings, they might also be considerate about things that we may 'lack'
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
true ratyz..just like horserule said above: if we judge a person by their looks, we are going to have some unpleasant surprises.
and I totally agree with that...
happy mylotting to you my friend!
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@earthsong (589)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I think we are all pretty much guilty of stereotyping people by appearance. Thankfully, if we give them a chance when we have a less than positive idea of someone, they tend to surprise you. I know I am bad about looking at someone, or hearing the way they speak, and assuming they aren't that smart. And I always feel bad when I am way off base.
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@earthsong (589)
• United States
14 Sep 09
Beyond physical looks I tend to go by the way a person presents themselves or how they are dressed. Secondary would be initially how they speak. If you see a large woman in shabby dress (meaning mismatched clothing, stained/dirty etc) I tend to get a first impression that they aren't very smart. And that's not a bash against overweight people, as I am far from my ideal weight myself. But I also try to make sure I have a neat appearance, am clean, halfway nicely put together. Also, if someone, usually a female, is overly loud in public I tend to form an opinion on their intelligence. I know its not the right thing to do, but if they present themselves as uncaring of themselves or foolish in public, its hard not to judge.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
True earthsong...most people do stereotype others...
if the girl is pretty, they would assume she'd dumb (can't pretty girls be smart too????)...
if he looks nerdy, then he must be super smart (can't they be stupid too?)
But then others also believe that a person's intelligence is reflected on his/her physical attrubutes...smart people would make it a point to dress properly and behave appropriately..
but doesnt work all the time too...
i know someone who is so brilliant but looks so disgusting and doesn't have hygiene at all.
so I guess it takes more than the looks to know the real deal.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
oh i totally agree with you earth... i give higher regards for women who know how to act appropriately around others... that says a lot about her.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
i agree that looks can be deceiving. you can not tell a person if they are intelligent or smart by looking only. for me first impression doesnt always last. first impressions are just impressions but it does not always last. if they speak and if they talk about themselves then you can see how intellectual a person is and how smart when they start talking then from that you can rate the first impression
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
hi roni..
yeah... first impressions do have a bearing...but it's only when you hold a conversation with the person that you see the his intelligence
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
21 Sep 09
I believe you can. Even if you allow that the person is aware of how important a first impression is (when applying for a job, for example), you can still tell by their demenaour what kind of person they are and whether they are smart or not. I rely a lot on the impressions I have of other people, and nowadays I´m seldom wrong. It did and does happen, though, and if I get it wrong I get it totally wrong.
Facial expression, body language, the way people talk are like an advert. They can almost tell you a person's life story.
It took me many years though to develop that insight and practice it. But by now I have no qualms to say 'such and such' is stupid. I don't mean it as an insult, but simply describe their intelligence level. Mind you, a stupid person can still be smart, street-smart, for example.
So, to sum up, people can be an open book just by their looks, it´s just a question of practice and trusting your judgement.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
hi there pillusch...
well they do day a person's intelligence is refelected on how the personcarries himself..
smart people would make it a point to look presentable and would act appropriately...
that goes for the first impression...
but does refelct a little of the person...and might give you an idea on how he is.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
14 Sep 09
I tend not to judge a book by it's cover but by title and then strange as it seems I usually look at the end of the story and if that suit me then I would buy the book and i usually never wrong. With people [ nice looking or not] I just wait and see what they have to say but at the end of the day [ to me] first impression count a lot. what do you think of this saying? [ the habit make a monk] well to me the monk makes the habit if you know what I mean?
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
however..first impressions may only last awhile if the person can't live up to it..what happens after would count more...
turn offs may ruin that impression easily.eh?
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
I am deceived by looks too and I am guiltyu of pre-judging others sometimes..however whatever i thnk about others, i keep to myself... and when i get to know the person better, i then prove myself wrong.
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@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
13 Sep 09
the way he/she is doing things, body language etc, will be helpful for finding smartness, if he acts like a fox it will soon revealed.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
i do agree on the fact that you can get a hint of the person's intelligence by the way he carries himself and act and talk...
but it's only from a real conversation that you would discover his intellect!
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Of course not. You cannot tell much about any person 'just by looking'. I don't judge a person based on how they look alone. I will take appearance and combine it with their actions - what they say, how they say it, how they interact with people - before I make a decision.
One thing that really irritates me is people who think that people who are attractive aren't smart - or that people who are attractive have good personalities too. Some are attractive but jerks... some people even ASSUME that attractive people are stuck up! I hate it!! Yes SOME are but definitely not all!
Besides, what does smart LOOK like?
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
most people do stereotype others...
if the girl is pretty , they would assume she'd dumb (can't pretty girls be smart too)...
if he looks nerdy, then he must be super smart (can't they be stupid too?)
But then others also believe that a person's intelligence is reflected on his/her physical attrubutes...smart people would make it a point to dress properly and behave appropriately..
but doesnt work all the time too...
i know someone who is sooooooo brilliant but looks so disgusting and doesn't have hygiene at all!!!
so I guess it takes more than the looks to know the real deal.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
I totally agree with what you said that looks can be deceiving. Not everyone who looks smart physically are really smart though i would say others really are smart. We can't judge a person by just the outside appearance for other makes a facade about themselves. I would prefer talking and knowing the person before i make any conclusion of how smart they really are.:)
I think that's how we should always do. Don't judge a book by it's cover, over used but true.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
Hello kench...First impressions could be very important. It starts from the way you dress. Then the way you carry yourself.We would not know until the open their mouth to speak to know whether he is just a dandy or more to that. An intelligent man will hold a very good interactive conversation;to the point and oftentimes inject humor into it. He should also speak impeccable English.
But it's true..looks can be deceiving.
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
14 Sep 09
I was ready to answer that you had already answered your own question when I realized that you had asked If others have been deceived by looks, also. Yes, I'm sure that all of us have been deceived by looks. Not only can one look smart and actually be pretty dumb, but some people look athletic but are not. The reverse can also be true. The best player on our high school girl's basketball team was very small, and the tallest girl would frequently fall over her own feet. Some people look kind but can be exceedingly cruel. The only way to really know a person is to spend time with them, preferably in several different circumstances.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
hi there bellis.... yeah having that much responses makes us share our views back and forth on this,,..
it is true though...deception can come in many form...the looks of a person is one of the most common source of deception...and people can be easily fooled by the personality one puts forward to.
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@zeethegr8 (785)
• India
13 Sep 09
I do agree that looks can be decieving hence it is better to know the person better first than to decide instantly whether he/she is smart or not.
Speaking on averages, nowadays girls are outshining boys in almost everything.
When it comes to identifying smart people, I usually don't go for the looks, I try and analyse the behaviour and way of communication of that person. I believe if a person can understand, relate, perceive, connect and respond to others is definitely a smart person.
I guess that makes all myLot members smart!! Yipee!
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
I second you on that zeeth!!
and I agree with you on the girls aoutshining the boys part (I hope they're not gonna kill us when they read this--lolz)
Yeah..actually you can get a hint on how the person is by the way he or she beahves and carries herself...
so even bafore talking to a person..you already have a bit of an idea if he is smart or not..but the real deal is uncovered when you hold a conversation with that person.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
hi there arkmedia... i agree with you...so do a lot of other mylotters.. it is difficult to judge a person with out even knowing them a little more...
a person's true intellect is known once you start a conversation with him...
no matter how "not so nice" looking a person is, but he makes a lot of sense when you are having a conversation..he will turly earn your respect.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
yeah that is true...
first impressions (based on the looks) would only last a little while
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Nope I can't because as you said looks can be deceiving. And someone we would think is smart or dumb and be opposite of what we think. And sometimes a person can be smart in one job/subject but isn't so good in others. So we tend to be judgmental about it sometimes.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
13 Sep 09
As the saying goes to know me is to love/like me. Some people judge on looks alone not giving the other person even a chance to prove if they are smart or not.. I know that has happened many times with me. I might have more of a Roseanne body type way more then Angelina Jolie's..but people don't really give heavier people or ugly ones as much of a chance as they would a sexy or pretty one and people miss out on alot of stuff for doing so..some of the fattest ugliest people can be the best of friends and will always have your back while the others are running away.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
sadly but true...
i must admit i do that soemtimes too.. i didn't wanna be in my professor's class coz I hate the way he looks..he doesn't comb his hair and brush his teeth...
but if you hear him discuss...even for 5 minutes... you would adore him!
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
13 Sep 09
That is why we should never judge a book..err.. a person buy what they look like outside or how they act on a first impression. I know I can get cranky a few times a month but I wouldn't want someone to dish me because they only seen the cranky me and decided that I wasn't worth knowing....we gotta give people more then one chance..cause not everybody puts their best foot forward at all times..cause situations can be different and people can be tired,worried,mad,stressed,lonely...the list goes on..
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
12 Sep 09
I think I can. But I need to be spending time talking or interacting with others to sort of detect this.
I think first impressions is important but it doesn't necessary has to last. I'll be willing for a 2nd opinion anytime, so the smart thingy could change too, with time..
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
13 Sep 09
Quote:
'howeve my college professor looks disgusting and could use a lot of hygiene.. yet when he starts talking, it changes everything I see about him'
Wuahuahuahuahuahuaaaaaaaaaaa... that's totally priceless! I love that description so much, man........it's like the epitome of irony. But I second to you. Smartness can leave me a deep and long impression; a good one at that.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
how are you zed? yeah you're right...first impression may not always last though... what happens after that will matter more...
if you see the real deal, the fist impression will fade that fast.
it takes at leats one conversation to realize if a person is indeed smart (or the otherwise)... one may look very impressive, but when he/she starts talking, won't make sense at all...
howeve my college professor looks disgusting and could use a lot of hygiene.. yet when he starts talking, it changes everything I see about him
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@reichiru (748)
• Canada
13 Sep 09
I usually try to not judge people from their looks, but sometimes you just can't help it. As for figuring out whether or not a person is intelligent just by looking at them, that's usually pretty difficult. I just entered a program in university that's supposed to contain the 70 top students of my year, but when I first saw everyone in my class, lots of them don't look like they would be the "smart" kind. I mean, I guess I don't really look smart either, but sometimes a person just looks really nerdy, and they usually turn out to be that way. But in my class, lots of people don't look that way at all, yet they are there so I have to conclude that they must be intelligent or else they wouldn't have been accepted into the program.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
hi there rech... actually you're right...
people tend to be too pretty and dressy,,,and people would they they're... (why ?? can't pretty girls be smart too?)
when you see a calls of "A" students..they could actually look different form each other...
so it is hard to tell really...
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Sep 09
Hiya patofgold,
When I was just started to work I had the un privilege to work with an Adonis who thought and looked smart except that I saw straight through him. All those smart answers did´nt do anything for me what a creep was what I was thinking inside. I was working as an Office Junior and you had to be the dogsbody for a while. More than once for all those smart remarks he made to me I give him his toast the last by then it was almost cold and he was to lazy to go and change it. He was very nice looking on the outside with nothing on the inside lol.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
hi there lovin...
seems like you have the gift of looking through a person..
atually it won't take long for anybody to see a person's real deal...
first impressions may only last a while...
what happens after is what matters most.,..
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
lolz maybe he was really insecure inside that time..sometimes picking on others i s a way to coneal your own flaws...
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Sep 09
Hiya patofgold,
Yes I agree with that too but that one was far too conceited and full of himself to change that quick.
I went to school with someone in our class that continually made fun of me all the time behind my back. Nowadays he says that he always thought I was the smartest girl in the Class can you believe it?
He was always full of himself too strutting around us girls and look what he says to me now well he left me a bit speechless to say the least.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
true rg,,,
some people act smart..and look smart....
but if we judge a person by the way they look, may come a lot of surprises.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
12 Sep 09
I try not to be judgmental, to say the least.
Some people I've met look great and look smart, but they're real idiots. They dress tidy and smart but really, they're not.
Other people I've met, even some of my professors, look VERY sloppy but they're incredibly smart.
So, yeah, I think it's not fair to judge people on their looks.
Thanks for commenting.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
hi there rg...i have to agree with you ... I have had professors too that don't look like liek they know anything at all...they don't look impressive.but once they start discussing.............i changes the whole way I look at them!
@blockme9000 (1)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
U can never say that a person is smart because of his/her looks, its in the skills, ideas, and knowledge that he/she have not the looks.
Never depend on the looks.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
yea.. it would take at least one conversation before you know the real deal...
unless you hear a person out, you would then know if he has something between the ears.
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