do you have a heterosexual friend after marriage?
By jinyan69
@jinyan69 (124)
China
September 12, 2009 9:07am CST
when i studied in college,i maked a few male friend,we have a pure friendship,i like making friend with them,becuse they know o lot of knowlege,they own wisdom.but i lost them now,becuse i have marriage,my husband don't let me to talk with a man alone outside ,espical trave with a man .now my world is more small,my hobby is diffrent with my husband,so we talk little.
2 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Sep 09
Hello jinyan. I am sorry for the situation you have after marriage. I used to have some very good female friends long time ago, but as we lost in touch with each other after we started to work in a different city. Because at that time communication back to the nineties was not so convenient as today. Still I am getting back some cell phone numbers of my old colleagues.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Sep 09
I think that it is easier for you to have your friends make friends with your husband. This way you are both friends with each other. I mean, not only with you, but with your husband as well.
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
12 Sep 09
This is why I always say know someone before saying I do. My husband and I have a good life together. We trust each other and have faith that the other loves them enough to be faithful. I have male friends that I talk to when my husband is there or not. My husband works in the public and meets a lot of females and has become friends with many of them. Some I know and others I don't. I think you should talk to your husband and explain to him how you feel and tell him you love him but you need a life also.
