Is it easier to talk to your guy friend or your girl friend about love issues?

Philippines
September 12, 2009 10:51am CST
I am a girl, but sometimes it's easier for me to talk to my guy friends about issues about my relationships. I don't know sometimes guys are more levelheaded that it's easier to talk to them about emotional stuff. What do you think?
3 responses
12 Sep 09
i think its easier to talk to about such stuffs to a person of different gender than yours. though you can talk to it with your friends, some details which you think are important would be awkward to talk to people of the same gender. it would be easier if the person is of a different gender, that way, all minute details would be brought up and you could analyze more the situation at hand.
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• United States
12 Sep 09
A lot of the time, girls tend to be very sympathetic, and often, they like to listen. However, a lot of girls have their judgment clouded by past experiences and lack of information on your situation. Sometimes, talking to guys gives you the advantage of seeing the situation in a guy's perspective. Although responses may vary from person to person rather than gender to gender, I prefer talking to my girl friends when i need comfort, but to my guy friends when i really want something solved.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 09
I am more comfortable talking to my girl friends. I am not that close to my guy friends to tell them all sort of thing. Plus, they might think I am whining too much. Girls can provide better solution as they understand me better. Of course the result would differ for someone else as we have different view on the relationships.