having to lose a love one is hard.

@twanda (185)
United States
November 13, 2006 9:41pm CST
my dad is 70 yrs old and has been sick for along time. my father has had cancer for the last 10 yrs and doctor told us that he wont last 2 years but he did just yesterday.we the family found out that he has already started the dying process by the hospice nurse and that we should make arrangements.my mom has been taking care of him at home and this is very hard on her as well as the kids.we all are grown now ages 50,47,45,39,36,31 we just lost a brother in 2003 a sudden death and a shock to everyone.my brother death took alot out of me but i made by the grace of god,now i have to deal with this about my father and it is very hard because i am a daddys girl and look just like him.how could you cope with something you dont want to except?
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@krizz420 (4385)
• Canada
15 Nov 06
Sorry for your loss. Everyone deals with pain differently so I got no tips for you. Sorry
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@twanda (185)
• United States
15 Nov 06
thank you for your response.
• United States
14 Nov 06
Honestly, I don't know how to answer this. I just wanted to respond to tell you that I am praying for you and your family, and If you would like, you can add me as a friend. And, anytime you need to just talk to someone, you can talk to me, I will listen.
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@twanda (185)
• United States
14 Nov 06
thank you for your kind words.i know that iwould need someone to talk to thanks again.
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