what to do when other person doesn't accept his mistake???
@dipteevaidya123 (21)
India
September 12, 2009 11:47am CST
in my group,my family and even my closed ones,there are many persons who do not accept their mistakes and that really irritates me,even though sometimes they are aware that they have done the mistakes but still they dont accept their faults and i really dont understand what to do in this situation.do help me by replying.take care...
2 responses
@pratyushtamhankar (859)
• India
12 Sep 09
Well, how about this, ask this question to yourself..
Why do you think that your loved ones don't accept their mistakes ? There might be some misunderstandings. You consider them your loved ones right, then do you too think about them the same way that you want them to think about you ?
what I mean to say is that if you love them, you should too understand them...
Did you ask the person why he isn't accepting his mistake ?
Did he answer ?
Are you not satisfied with the answer ?
Did you tell him that you aint satisfied ?
What did he say ?
Sit and talk my dear... There can be a lot of problems due to misunderstandings...
Don't get irritated so easily... Good relationships aren't worth the fights...
I'm sure your loved one does not mean to hurt or irritate you...
And yeah, as for your question, "I talk with the person as maybe he isn't accepting his mistake because he might have not understood his mistake, or maybe I haven't understood his point..."
Take care, happy mylotting...
@good2go2001 (915)
• United States
12 Sep 09
i have found the same situations but this is one thing that i have learned. First you have to stop and think is this really my problem? Second thing is you have to realise that you cant make someone see something or except it if they dont want to except change. Sorta the thing with ...you can lead a horse to water but your cant make them drink.