Do you notice the rank,reputation,etc., daily?
By dbutheking
@dbutheking (2347)
India
September 13, 2009 5:08am CST
Hi,
I usually notice all of them daily.. Because i can know at where i lost the reputation and where i rated postitive by simply seeing my ranks in the particular interest.
Yesterday, i have the reputation of 99. Today it is 96. I know where i lost it...
I lost it in the relationships for making the funny relationships title..
Do you think i am lying? I am telling the truth...
We call the sons and daughters as grand son and grand daughter only..
You are from different country and i am from the different country. Your culture is different and our culture is different. Do you think i am giving the wrong informations there?
Then why rated me negative? I lost a level and 500 ranks.
It really made me mood off today...
What was the thing that makes you turn off recently?
I am not in a well mood today..
When i log off today in the morning i got the 2 BRs which make me really happy.
But when i log in now(Afternoon) i am not happy at all..
Do you have any incidents that happen to be happy and later turns out to be sad?
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39 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Sep 09
Heyyyyy!
Where is your hat???
You look so violent now and violence is not nice
That discussion was probably misunderstood by some users who are not in your part of the world. We can't have good days every day though my friend and instead of getting upset about it, it should spur you on to make up for and recover your losses!
I don't look at ratings and rankings and I have forgotten about my own star ever going back up to where it was. It doesn't make any difference to the way I am so I might just as well not bother about it.
Now where have you gone too?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Sep 09
Don't you think life would be boring if it was all on the flat?
It's much more interesting with twists and turns in the road that we have to travel - it keeps us awake and aware of what is happening and if we keep on our toes it never gets monotonous
You have a comment on your photo - do you check them when you post them?
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi mysD,
Nothing violent, just practicing the ninja tricks.
Today first good, next bad and again good. Lots of ups and downs..
Today I got the BRs from Thea and Learn at morning, Lost my rating afternoon and Got in to the digest evening. What up in the night. Something too bad?.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Yes, saw it.. I always check them when i receive further comments after the photos..
Again a great twist and turn today. Today is full of twists and turns. Next twist are
Got the highest ever single day participation till now.. and also reached the one which all of them expecting to reach every month..
So, three good things happen consecutively. What's next.. A bad thing? May be i am banned???
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I am a bit confused by this, but I don't think your lying. In your other discussion it was your niece who had a child... I told you in my country it would be the great niece, but I knew from another mylotter's discussion that that isn't the case in your country. It seems to me that every "great" relative is considered to be a granddaughter or grandson. You made a statement in this discussion as follows : "Do you think i am lying? I am telling the truth... We call the sons and daughters as grand son and grand daughter only.." what do you mean by this? Do you mean that while you do consider the niece's child to be a granddaughter you only call your own flesh and blood's children as grandson and daughter? please clarify.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Oh okay, you have clarified! That is good! lol! Just a typo, understood! New Avvie? That's nice.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
hehe.. Yes, just uploaded it.. Soon to change it..
How about it, is it okay to stay there as my avvie?
I am still searching for some different smiley....
Have a great day.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Please see my first comment in the first response in the bold letters..
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Actually, I don't even look at my rankings. There could be other contributing factors. Maybe someone else got positive ratings. Maybe your comments actually didn't have anything to do with your falling in rank. Maybe someone else just got ranked better. Just a thought. Maybe you will be happy knowing someone wasn't rating you negatively, they were just rating someone else positively. Maybe they didn't even see your discussion. If people are rating over such insignificant differences as that, then they shouldn't be rating. No one should be rated on cultural differences.
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
13 Sep 09
If someone in that particular category got rated positively wouldn't that make you go down if they went up enough to move you from your spot? Someone could have ranked you negatively, but you need to overcome it and get your spots back. I know there was a couple idiots who kept rating everyone negative. Maybe he found you. If that happens it's best to try your best to get your rating and ranking back.
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Oh, sorry, I didn't think he was talking about the star ranking. I guess that makes sense. I must have been half asleep trying to answer. Maybe that means that some yo-yo found you and started rating negatively. Thanks so much for setting me straight Mike.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi mommaj,
I agree with your statements about the ranking. What about my reputation that has falling down?
I have increase in all my interest and fall in that particular interest.
What does it mean? Any idea?
I'm sure the negative rating is the reason. Because, none of the posts also deleted. I got the same posting rank now..
Have a great day.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
13 Sep 09
Hi dbu, I'm sorry to hear you lost points in your star. The only reason I know of is that someone must have negative rated you which is against the spirit of Mylot. I hope you know that they will lose points too by doing it. I don't understand what you mean by losing 500 ranks, I thought that meant that 500 people were more active than you in that interest.
I check my rating daily and it just won't move. It takes far longer to go back up than it does to go down. I went from blue to yellow overnight by writing in one interest. I hope yours goes back up quickly.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Yes, it is cheering me.. Yes, mysD is also down here. I guess she might see this comments. May be she clarify whether i am right.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi Thea,
No, if we are rated very badly we lose more number of ranks..
Yes, i agree. If others are too active than us also our rank decreased. You can feel the difference. I was not at all active in that interest after the confused with relatives discussion. It was 3 days ago!..
I have lost only 20 ranks for no participation in there..
I suddenly lost 500 ranks in that interest. What does it mean? It is only during the negative rating.
Have a great day..
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 09
Hi dbutheking
So you've changed your avatar again.. I haven't seen that funny relationship discussion yet (so, you really make it!) How do you know that you lost it in that discussion? I look at that discussion and seems like some people confuse about that, LOLz.. Don't be so sad, I'm sure, because you're active, your rank will be raised soon! Personally, I rarely check it, only make sure the color still same,,hehe.. I'm not really active here now.. Yes, yesterday I feel so happy because my college's holiday for 2 weeks. But I lost my pencil case with all the stationary inside it and now I'm having diarrhea, so I can't enjoy my holiday
Cheers! Cheers! Keep active and soon your rank will raise
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@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 09
It's nice, but I don't really understand what your avatar do.. You're right, if we start a new discussion, many people can see and rated it (our responders) but if we only respond maybe only the discussion starter who rated us after read our response.. or maybe the responders after us,,
just visit doctor and hope tomorrow I'll be fine. But now i only can eat porridge Thanks for care :D
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Only porridge? So, sad...
Hope you get well soon..
So, you will be active here for next 2 weeks?
My ninja animates only in the profile..
Have a great day.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi Chrysan,
Yes, i really made it and it was at the second in the hot list too.. Received nearly 28 responses..
Do you like my new avatar?
Your color is always same unless you started a discussion. Because while responding only discussion starter probably rate us. But while starting discussions every one is rate us..
Also, as you are less active here, you can choose the set of friends to respond who rates you positive.
So, sad that you cannot enjoy your first day holiday, How about now? Are you fine?
Have a great day..
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
Wow! i didn't know you were already ninety-nine, just surpass me yesterday. well, in mylot people can do almost anything and even sneak around putting people down just because they didn't like the topics. that's the problem of being so different. you're lucky they weren't much trolls around, the last i was here, the oldies suffered a heavy loss on their star bringing down trolls. in the end, we realized it was one of the my-lotters who was doing it. you can't please every one so be really careful with the topics you make, it can be a very bad impression on some people.just keep making good discussions, but think twice if it's really gonna be a good one.i know, i took risk too.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Sep 09
It is far far better I agree
but some of are still showing the bruises
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
13 Sep 09
I dont really check my ranks.. in each interest you mean ? I'm not even sure how to do that.. please inform me friend.
Maybe people rated you negative cause they dont understand that where you are from that is what's normal.. just as where they are from, their way is normal.. sometimes people dont always have an open mind..
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
haha.. So, you got the attention now right? Did you see there or didn't pay attention to it now too?
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@Pompon (1757)
• Poland
13 Sep 09
I don't try to calculate my presence on mylot. I don't check where I got good ratings or bad, I only notice when my star changes it's color and then I think "Oh, someone rated me bad" but that happens. Cultural discussions are dangerous, yes. But if I had something to write I write it anyway. I nevere flame anybody and I think it's enough;)
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
It is really bad when we know that rated badly.
Hmm.. From 96 to 99 i had nearly 10 days. But 99 to 96 in 1 day.. Very bad.
Here onwards, i wont make discussions in that interest..
I am going to post in fun with friends only.
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@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
Hi there!
You can really follow what interest you were rated negatively? I am not very particular with these things here in mylot. I just keep posting and try to have fun while online. I don't put much attention to these things cause it only distracts my concentration and might, like you, mood off me while I mylot.
Nothing really turns my mood down to mylot, well, only if my shoulders and back are aching already, that's when it irritates me and somehow makes me lazy to be working on in here. It's uncomfortable to be working when you don't feel so good.
Ciao!
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@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
Why would you avoid responding on similar discussions or on the interest that you were rated negatively when it is your interest and you have many things to say about it? Don't be turned down on negative ratings.
Me, when receiving negative ratings, I just try to think of it that we cannot please everybody here.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Noooooooo! I don't avoid responding there.. I will keep on going..
I will try my best not to start a discussion there.. May be i try in Life or People which we can relate with the relationships too..
Have a great day..
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi iskayz,
I had joined very few interest, so it is easy to trace where i am rated badly..
You are correct. It is better not to check it as it turns our mood off. But i can see the reputation here. When i lost more, i just can clearly know where i am rated badly and what discussion i am rated badly here.
So, i can use it to avoid more participations in that interest or avoid similar kind of discussions there...
Yes, body aches are always irritating..
Have a great day.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
well... if my rank or reputatin would go down... i am not really that sure where i have gotten those negative ratings. its hard for me because i just keep on pooping and responding to anywhere i just love to. oh! just dont be sad my dear. ok?! and i know there is no such things as wrong responses. because we have our own views and opinion in every discussions we have to discussed with each other.
but i am so happy i got 100/100... it was 99/100 before...t hanks for all those who gave me a good ratings friends!!!
jhelai
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Sep 09
Wooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!
Well done Jhelai!
Your new avatar is just sooooooooooo cute too!
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi jhelaichie,
100/100 really cool to see.. Very few of them have this ratings here. I saw only 4 or 5 of them till now...
Did you saw that funny relations discussion? Any thing offended there?
Have a great day..
Congrats for your century.. Keep it up.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Your new avatar is cute. Last time i saw you with a ninja avatar isn't it? That looks like a manley thing. This looks so feminine and Cute...
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I never really paid attention to ratings and rankings. I did notice that my star went from blue to red, so I guess that is a good thing. I wouldn't let it worry me, though, because we are just here to have fun and earn a couple extra bucks while we do it.
As I don't really know that much about rating and ranking this might be a dumb question, but are you sure you were rated negatively? If somebody else had more responses that got a "+" than you did, wouldn't that make their rating and ranking go up? If so, then wouldn't it also make your rating and ranking go down in comparison?
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
14 Sep 09
Dbu, thanks for the explanation. That makes sense. With 31,409 in this particular topic alone, 500 didn't seem like that big of a jump, especially since I don't know how much the "+" ratings affect the ranking or what a "normal" fluctuation is. Putting it in perspective the way you did, though, it does seem like you got a bunch of negative ratings, especially considering that yesterday you and Mike were competing with each other for #1 on the hot list, so you obviously were very active.
By the way, I like your new avatar.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
14 Sep 09
Yes, +ve and -ve ratings have the impact of our rankings in every interest. So, don't forget to rate others if their response contributes something helpful to you..
Have a great day.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi purplealabaster,
Yes, if someone got the more rating than you the particular day their rank goes up and your rank goes down. You can see the difference in the change in the ratings.
I have been in the rank 727 in the Q&A section 3 days ago. I don't have any significant participation in that discussion after that. Now my rank is 730.. This is a normal thing..
But losing 500 ranks in a single day even with a active participation is definitely the impact of the negative ratings..
Have a great day.
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@jappy08 (36)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Sep 09
Well, I'm a new mylotter and was never aware of the ranking system. Thank you all for all the inputs here, I know what it is. I think we should'nt be giving too much emphasis on rankings. This is a forum where you discuss on any topic and let's have fun discussing. The rankings will take care of itself. Maybe when I start getting ranked, I too will be checking it daily.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
14 Sep 09
You can be ranked even from now itself if you continue to post the response in Quality way.. You get the star only after the 100 posts. If you post Quality right from now, you may see a good reputation when you reach the 100th post..
have a great day.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
15 Sep 09
Did you notice your rank in myLot.com interest?
You are in 18,571 among the 31,000+ users...
Have a nice day..
Keep posting Quality post.
@geraldrakesh (181)
• India
13 Sep 09
i am new to dis so no such experiences yet.. can you tell me where to find this rank reputations and all..
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@purplelilac (169)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I didn't even realize this. I get so focused on the posts I don't look at that. I will have to take a look and see where I am. It could become a dailty thing now that I know that!
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
If you see a star near the user name and keep your cursor at the star you can see the reputation points out of 100. These points are rounded off to the nearest 10 to have in the star. Different numbers have different colored stars.
You will get that star when you reach the 100 posts.
You can see your ranks in the right side of the name in the every responses. Ex. you have 14,252 rank in myLot.com interest. In each interest you get a seperate rankings.
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@hexeduser22 (7419)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
I don't know about the reputation and ranking thing that goes on in mylot. I'm a complete noob on this stuff, thanks for pointing it out. Well as for your ratings, that's too bad but we got a saying that "we cannot please everybody". The negative rating has a purpose, I think its too balance things out here in mylot. Imagine if the only option for mylotters is positive then mylot discussions would not be credible or as healthy as it is now.
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@antarcticpostcards (472)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Yes, there is a reason for the negative and I do not think it should disappear. However, I know sometimes people get rated negative just for having a difference of opinion. It is sad, but that is just the fact of just a subjective rating system. My philosophy on it is to just not let it bother me when my rank lowers.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi hexeduser,
We should not rate negative just for disagreeing with them.. It is against the guideliness..
We should rate +ve if the comments are useful to us. If it is not related to the discussion and just a spam or others we may rate negative.
Have a great day..
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@hexeduser22 (7419)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
Of course it's against the guidelines to give a negative rating just because you disagree, it's unethical and somewhat discriminating. I could give someone a negative rating if I find his/her post offensive to the general public and the content is utterly nonsense.
@Eisenherz (2908)
• Portugal
14 Sep 09
From personal experience I can say that I tend to look up at how my rants and reputations change daily. It's natural to care for those, since they're directly envolved to the earnings that we're going to make at end of a day, after all.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
14 Sep 09
No ranks don't involve in the earnings. Only the ratings will be involved in the earnings.. But, we can find the positive or negative rating we got in that interest by comparing the previous day's rank and today's rank..
Have a great day..
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@antarcticpostcards (472)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I like to check what my rank is everyday, but I rarely look at my interest category rankings. I just look at the rank number as curiosity thing and do not let it get to me if it is lowers and honestly do not even get that happy when it gets higher either. It does not bother me much either way because overall it is a subjective rating system.
@antarcticpostcards (472)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I am not saying that we should. I am just saying that it does happen. I never give a negative rating for someone with a different view then mine. Quite the opposite, I like to read other's viewpoints and happily give them a positive for expressing their point of view and not a fake agreement because they worry about their rank.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
That's so sweet of you to rate other responses too..
Keep it up..
Have a great day..
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi antarcticpostcards,
Saw your comments in response 6.. We should not rate others negatives just for they are against us..
See this link:
http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq17.aspx#3
What if I disagree with someone? Should I give that post a negative rating?
[i]Absolutely not! In fact,if you disagree with a post, but still feel it positively contributes rate to the discussion, you should it positively....
[/i]
Have a great day...
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@maclanis (2406)
• Belgium
13 Sep 09
I don't really check my rank, reputation and all of that daily. It's not that I don't care about it at all, I just don't pay that much attention to it. People rate me negatively too, but I get a lot of positive ratings as well, so I don't mind. :) Just try to look on the bright side, you still have a higher rating than most people here!
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
[b][b]@ ALL
NOTE: There is a typo in the description: We call sons and daughters of the nephew/niece as grandsons./grand daughter.[/b][/b]
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi maclanis,
Yes, i agree with you.. There are lots of positive ratings i got. and lots of negative too before. But that is not that much visible..
Suddenly a 3 point decrease makes me feel a little. Just want to share with someone. So, only this discussion.
Thanks for being here..
Have a great day.
@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
14 Sep 09
To be honest, I rarely check my reputation and rank. I honestly forgot that I could do that. I am sorry that happened to you. It is not fair that people rank you low because of a difference in culture. I hope that it turns around for you and that your rank and reputation get much higher!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Apr 11
hi fellow mylotter s read all the mylot information as it will settle all those questions you seem to have. and no you cannot know how anyone rated you so checking all that everyday will just drive you nuts.
as for different cultures and customs we all come from different countries and I like this so much as I get to meet you both and learn from you and share and eventually become mylot friends with you.so
]do not worry about it and please do rate as you respond to others here. not rating is what keeps our reps not moving. rate as positive as you can and it will help your own star to move up. as for the changes we all get ours going up and d own. honestly I do not check them as it would just drive me nuts.Most of us wou ld never rank you low because you are from a different culture, thats what makes myulot such a great place for us to make friends from all over the world.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
15 Sep 09
Hi hmkoct,
Yes, the reputation will be higher again during the positive comments receive in the future discussions and the responses. So, i can get my rank again..
Have a great day...
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@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 09
I am remember when I was new, someone give me negative because don't agree with me. Then, with collecting a ton of ton interest I can have good started. I have notice that was just not enough with only responding the discussions, I'm must be active more often right here and make a good topic. A few month ago, I'm inactive and I loss few of my interest ranking.
@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 09
That was long ago, I am trying to speak with good words and someone was saying so rude to me. I feel not want to bothering with that discussions, I just forgive what did happen to me that days and forget everything. Because, I cannot do anything if mine is down. So, I try to work hard to have good reputation with participation in anywhere.
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Don't worry may..
Your reputation will increase soon...
Really nice comments on that photo.
Have a great day.
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi May,
Yes, when we are not participating and others participation makes our rankings down..
How can you say that when you was new they rate you badly? Did you note the rankings just like me?
Have a great day.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Hello
Thank you so much, I just learned something new about mylot, I don't give negative ratings usually most post are coming from people that try to speak from their experience or their heart, I have not come across post where people are mean just because they feel the need to be, we should all be applauded in our efforts to respond to each other and try to keep a few good discussions going
Thank you for posting this.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Hello my friend
Thank you so much for requesting my friendship I am honored, I am so proud of you, you have been here 3 weeks and you are doing such a good job, keep up the good work, I will continue to join in your discussions.
Thank you so much my friend
@dbutheking (2347)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi kitty,
I am happy that you learned something new about the myLot from my discussions.. We should not give negative unless it is not related to the topic..
I guess the following link will help you even more information about myLot:
http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq17.aspx#3
Welcome to my discussions,
Have a great day..