when ur friends are divorcing, will u stop them or let it be?

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It's no rare that we heard about people are divorcing at a dramastic rate than ever. The other day, an acquaintance mentioned that a friend of him was asking for his advice on divorce issue. That man was a 38 (good-for-nothing man, I personally think ). Even though their son is 20 now, which means that the parents are facing a most difficult situation---- to buy wedding house for his son. P.S. in Chinese culture, at least in the northern part of China, it is normally male part to buy the wedding house and see to the majority of the wedding cost. Therefore, if a man couldn't ensure a house or apartment, he would hardly find a wife. My friend persuaded them not to do so, while I see it differently. Because it's really a hurting decision to divorce at the age of 40s for a woman with children. Normally Chinese women choose to endure as long as they can to maintain their marriage for the sake of their children. It's relatively rare for a woman to lodge a divorce. Out of this reason, I can tell that the woman may really get tired of hard life with a man who is not young and unable to give a woman who takes care of her half her life what she needs and longs for. My friend argues that the man treats the woman well, but when being asked how well, in what ways the man treats the woman well, he got dumbed. I really doubt it that a man incapable of making money and lack of proper education could treat his wife well enough. They have been through ups and downs for decades, only living in a rented small cottage. With what can he treat her well? Instead, the wife takes care of the household, child and a husband. So I think the woman makes a very wise decision to pursue her own happiness in a new way. Or her whole life would be ruined in the hand of the man.