Comparing you from someone..
By simply_aliol
@simply_aliol (5)
Philippines
September 14, 2009 7:43am CST
Do you hate comparison?Why and what irks you most out of it?
Grrr..comparison?Hate it.It really irks me when someone compared me with somebody else. It is one of the things I hate about because for me comparison is out of bound specially done in unpleasant way. In the family, this is one thing parents should not do with their children especially comparing in terms of achievements.It might lead to hatred and jealousy.
Also, comparison comes with favoritism.
Have you experienced this?
1 response
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
14 Sep 09
i know undue comparison by parents can marr relationship between siblings. my younger sister hated me still she grew up as she was constantly compared with me.her grades,her behaviour ,looks everything and the worst part it was either being done by my parents or they supported anyone who did it.despite by best efforts i could not befriend her and we would end up not talking to eachother for months. now she regrets having lost those carefree moments in resentment.so do i.its bad you know..
