Do you say sorry after the quarrel?
By karenkarenkk
@karenkarenkk (1121)
China
September 14, 2009 10:46am CST
My parent have a quarrel tonight, just for some trifle, both of them think the other is wrong. I feel it's difficult to be a judger, all I can do is comforter them and try to relieve them from their anger.
Did you have a similar experience, what did you do? Or did you ever quarrel with your partner? Do you say sorry after the quarrel? If your partner say sorry first, will you forgive him right away?
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4 responses
@Jackie2009ws (113)
• China
15 Sep 09
Well,it depends.Actually I don't like to quarrel with anyone,especially my family.But there are something you are mad at or angry with.When I quarrel with someone,I 'll try to find if it was my fault ,if I was wrong ,then I would stop and made an apologize to him/her definitely.
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
15 Sep 09
Hi Jackie, I am the one do not like quarrel too. Quarrel can not be taken place just by one people. More or less, both party are wrong in a quarre. My mom always keep silence when my dad get angry. Anyway, I find it's hard to do so, luckily, my husband always try to avoid argument with me. : ) Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
@cbakin20 (149)
• United States
14 Sep 09
I always say sorry after any argument I have with anyone. I don't normally stay angry with anyone for a long time, so it doesn't happen that I don't forgive someone anyway, but it does make it easier for me to forgive if they say sorry, too. I never like to leave bad air between me and another person, so I always try my best to fix it. This is especially important with my girlfriend.
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
15 Sep 09
Hi Cbakin, I can see you are a generous person. That is good, you must get return that you are popularous. I sometimes have argument with others in work, but I just try to let it go earsily. When I have quarrel with my husband, he is usually the one who break the ice first. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
15 Sep 09
: ) How about if you are fault? Sometimes I gave my husband the silent treatment too, but it never last to next day. He always try to break the ice between us.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
15 Sep 09
Sometimes it is difficult to make out who is right and who is wrong. I will say sorry after a quarell if I feel that I have done the msitake. At the same time I won't say sorry. I will forgive my partner when he say sorry after a fight. I don't feel embarassed to apologize to my partner in case of my mistake. I think the word 'sorry' can patch up a relationship very well. Say 'sorry' and feel the difference.
