Have you ever had to delete a friend from mylot?

I think the word 'friend' must be one of the most abused words on here. Another is 'new'. We have alist of usernames which is inappropriately considered as a list of friends. My idea of 'friend' goes way beyond the definition use there. Having said that, yes I do clean up my list each month and I remove names (not friends) whose profile page is blank. I saw the incident that has prompted this and I was a bit taken aback but then I remembered something else by the same user which would cause me to see that response in a different light. I noticed elsewhere yesterday that a room-mate was causing a moment of tension for that user and I wonder if it could be a repeat moment there too. When offline things happen I know from experience that it can alter the way we portray ourselves here through our writing. May I suggest you contact the user concerned before taking further action as they may be completely oblivious and even unaware of who they were talking to due to an offline problem. I hope it sorts itself as misunderstandings can ruin so many otherwise pleasant situations.

Yes I have a few as they where not Friends and believe me at the time it was hard as they had been on my list from when I joined It is hard but when they start getting nasty then there is no point as to me Friends are exactly what the word means Friends I only have real Friends on my list now and very rarely accept anyone now as I prefer it that way after the bad attack on me last Year which is now over and forgotten, but it taught me a lesson

Hi dear! It is sad to hear, whatever has happened with you and your discussion. I have never deleted an 'active' friend from my list of friends here on mylot. Whenever I review my list, I remove/delete those friends, who are inactive for pretty long time, say more than six months. When I find that neither I nor that particular friend is participating in each other's discussions, I delete the name of the friend my list. I just do not want to increase the number for the sake of it and I always wish to interact with 'active' friends. And those who are good friends, always keep me informed about their long absence, if they are unable to log in to mylot and I also do like-wise.

I have never deleted anybody so far... and I do not see any reason why i have to... it is great having lots of freinds around mylot...

I don't delete a friend from mylot. I have many friends in mlot.they are caring me.

No never cause i'm new!!

Well mylot is just a great thing. There had been incidents over here that I feel like made me annoyed. There was one guy who just annoyed me with posts to be his referral in other sites. He would spam me with messages. every time I would log in to find plenty of messages that he would send. I just ignored him. It went on for about three weeks and after that he left. That was the most annoying thing that I ever had in this site. Well even after that I did not delete him. Now I think that he is off mylot too. He did not have any activity of late.

I have never deleted any contact till now. Far ago, there was one of my friends with whom I happened to develop some differences. And not only me, he started to abuse just everyone who had views against his.... I really got cross but still didn't feel like deleting him:) Later he disappeared or was banned, I can't say...

Hi Angie. Yes, I deleted someone off my friends list on here just the other day. It was the first time that I've had to do this in the 2 1/2 years that I've been here. This person had left a comment that was rather uncalled for on my profile, so I thought it would be best if I deleted it as well as them off of my friends list. The best thing you can do is try not to let it get to you. Good luck and happy mylotting!

I have never had that kind of negative experience here, and I am glad. I enjoy coming to this site to discuss things and have a bit of fun. But, on the subject of deleting a "friend"...when I first joined mylot, I accepted any and all friend requests. Most of the time it was fine, but one friend just bombarded me with junk messages and would go on my posted discussions and post links and nonsense replies, so I had to delete this person.

as far as being here for not that long... i havent tried deleting a member of this site.. in my list some whom i called friend and some acquaintances... some if feel odd sometimes but i never tried deleting them even if i do not like them in some ways i cannot explain. but when someone likes to add me to their list, i would be happy to accept it. but so far, i love everyone here. some are not that active and yet still they are on my list. jhelai

You know I never do understand why people have to be so mean. Seriously if someone makes a mistake here on mylot then simply point it out to them POLITELY and later on if they do not take heed to what they've been told take the proper measures. I've seen some people here and on other sites just get down right nasty to others ( as if they've never broken a rule or two on accident or on purpose. ) The best thing you can do is just move on sweets because for whatever reason that person decided to treat you with disrespect, and lord knows there is enough disrespect in this world especially in daily life, without having to be disrespected over a mistake too. Besides you've got plenty of other friends that love and care about you that would never disrespect you like that. Now I don't know exactly what happened or whom was involved and I don't want to know because the truth is a friend will help and guide and point out the mistakes made, not jump your sh** and make you feel like a lousy peace of trash. (((hugs))))

never since I am a newbie to mylot, I only have 4 friends on my list hehe

Some peoples add their people in their friend list to make it bigger and sometimes they invited by the peoples so they accept their invitation just for nothing not as a friend if you have a friend which is closer to you u shouldn't delete or kick him out because this will not get any cost to be stay with him in ur friend list

I have never deleted any friend on mylot. I've never met them, and for me they're unreal friend, though they sometime have amazingly common viewpoints with me; so I don't care if they're active or not. People here have the right to choose if they want to stay or leave this forum, but I always greet their coming back at anytime.

No I've never deleted anyone from my account because I don't really have a problem with anyone here on mylot. It seems like everyone on here is a pretty nice person so I just let whatever happen on my account.

I've deleted people before. If they aren't active, then figure why have them taking up space. I have once because of the reason that you are stating. Sorry, it does happen but not too often. I think it happens to people at least once here Angie, but you can't sweat it. It is just a parting of ways and if it was on a bad note then maybe it will turn itself around. Maybe not, but don't get too hurt over something here.

my friend I never deleted anyone on my friends least no one but the thing is the feeling I got when a friend of mine deleted me on her friends least and for what reason I dont know thats the worst part of it though coz I never was rude here at the lot and never got my discussion even 1 of my discussion deleted on any matter but i am still confused why she deleted me I so wanted to request for friendship to her maybe she just deleted me accidentally but the last reply i got from her was a reason that prevented me from asking friends request, now what to do I dont know I will make a discussion similar to this one but the opposite the feeling of being deleted lol well till now I still want her reason for she had been very close to me and if I hurt her whit one of my discussion which was not meant for her by the way i think apologies is overdue and I am willing to give it to her if needed wish you luck though on your part.

Since I have been here for almost 4 months, I have not deleted anyone yet. So far no one has become a nuisance yet. But in case I encounter one, I would no doubt delete a friend.

no, i didnt delete any of hem. i just let them stay there. good thing to have them in our list is they can participate in our discussion or if they have new topic then the same thing also. im not even talking to some of them but its alright since this is a free site and anyone are welcoe so who am i to reject them. besides i also sent invitation if i need to ask something from the member specially about the site or about mylot.