Is Bad habbit necessary to enjoy life?
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
India
September 14, 2009 9:06pm CST
Yesterday when i was going for home from office, my friend asked me that you didn't have habit in you college life ever like flirting or any other.First i like to tell about myself ,conservative , dont like to talk too much,people think that am quiet person, like to listen then to speak.
So he thought i dont enjoy life so he asked abouve question.But every person have bad habbit not worst habbit; Worst habbit is dangerous.I also had bad habbit; according to people view it is bad not in my view ie to take drink. Now i have controlled in drinking ; but whenever i tell to anybody this they become happy somewhat that i also have one habbit.
So when people have some habbit which is bad according to mass of people attract more people then simple person. why it is so?
1 response
@taztheone (1721)
• India
15 Sep 09
According to me, Bad or good is decided by us. What ever we feel good is good for us but that may be bad for the world. To be honest I do drink & smoke (occasionally), for me its not something bad to drink socially & I find it really great to have drinks with my friends in parties. But this may be considered as a bad habit by many. Now I consider active/regular drinking & smoking or getting addicted to these as a bad habit because of increased health risks.
Similarly not talking too much is considered a bad habit by some & as a good habit by others & same is the case with flirting. So I do what I like, unless it does not hurt others, to enjoy my life.
The main thing is accept what you are & never try to build a good image over something which you think is bad. If you drink you drink & that's how I live
& so far no one hated me for my devilish things
Happy Lotting
& so far no one hated me for my devilish things
Happy Lotting@taztheone (1721)
• India
15 Sep 09
I would like to add up that people like a person with some bad habits because they are more likely to be active among other people & might know how to keep people entertained. After all no one would like boring people. Well this is one of the reasons according to me
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@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
16 Sep 09
Hi Taz,I am agree with you that "what is good and what is bad" is just a way you thing towards that act. I have observer person with more bad habits are more like by people then persons with less habit and entertainment is the main reason behind this liking.
I also don’t think drinking and smoking do occasionally is bad but act with opposite personality is bad according to me. And that is occasionally too is not bearable. Some time in get to gather or party person become boring due to involvement and you can involve 100% by participating in every act 100% except objectionable act.
Conclusion is that limit is required to make it good or bad. Have a nice day!!
