Reconciliation? Do you go out of your way to reconcile with someone or do you

no wouldn't go out of my way to reconcile with someone i think if reconciliation will be required to get someone to be with you i think that's not good. he/she should understand you and if they love you then they will not let you change yourself and will be with you as you are.

I will do my best to make things right or explain things the way I saw it in hopes the other will take it all in with an opened mind but if not then I'll back away to let things cool down and hope things will fall into place to where we can talk things out and mend our friendship but if not then it's best to let it go. It might hurt a little or a lot but it's best to let it go instead of rehashing it over and over again for it's like getting smacked over and over again which isn't doing anything good.

Hi hotsummer, It's never easy to forgive but it is very necessary. Carrying a grudge for a long time can do us a lot of harm both physically and mentally. It is very true that time is the great healer and it does work this way too. I believe that people who learn to get along again after the passage of time have really forgiven each other, although they won't always readily admit it. Blessings.

If it is my husband I usually try and reconcile right away even if we have to have a good fight. I don't like to let things fester between us. Other than that in my adult life I have only had one bad encounter with someone I cared about and that was my mother in law. It was kind of her way though she was always fighting with someone at one time or another and I had my turn at it once. Actually it was not really a fight, she was babysitting my daughter and she was in a bad mood that day when I went to pick her up and she snapped at me. Out of respect I did not say anything to her about it, but my husband was very upset that she did that and for the reason she did it. I kind of just stayed away from her for a couple of months. But being related it was in-evidable that we would see each other again, and when we did we were pleasant to one another and we built our relationship back up after that. I had always been really close to my mother in law until that happened and she really hurt my feelings. She did apologize after snapping at me that day but it was followed up with a but and I thought it in-sincere. Other than that I have never really fought with anyone other than my husband as an adult. A couple times in Junior high but that was Junior high crap.