Fool's Love

I think that at some point in live, everyone wants that feeling of knowing that a person you have admired for quite some time has taken an interest into you. I think that there are some girls that are so thrilled with the outcome that they don't see the reality. Even when they see it, it takes maturity to step back and walk away. Revenge may be fun, but it is actually more rewarding if you do not stoop down to his level, leave with your respect, and then let him regret it in the future. When you do that, you actually come out as the winner. It may be such a cliche thing to say, but its true. I have had my share of heart aches that were totally undeserved. With some of them, I stuck around and forced it to work. I was so convinced that I needed to prove something to either myself or to the guy. No matter how much more I deserved, my quality as a woman was unnoticed because of my lack of self-respect and dignity. Then, there were relationships where I left with my head held up high no matter how hard it hurt. Those people actually held me in high regard afterward. I think its all a learning process of who we are and what type of relationships we want to be in. I think life has a way of balancing things. If we want our moment, we need to know when to walk away and let things go.

Um, sounds very fantasy like as in... the odds of someone you secretly admire suddenly finding out you exist is quite unlikely. But, well according to the situation, I would break it right away. Hate people who just dig status. I think its really important to admire people for their goodness and inner value rather than face value. I guess the best way to face someones dishonest is to be honest to yourself and act according to your values.