To see or not to see

i think maybe you and the children should meet him on neutral ground,like the park for instance,if he can't respect you and your new partner then i personally wouldn't have him in the house,coz it may upset the children if they hear his remarks,,but you shouldn't stop him from seeing the kids,he has a right to see them unless there's a chance he will mentally or physically hurt them,,i understand where you're coming from as my ex husband was the same,the difference is your ex wants to see his kids,and that's good,not all men want their kids if the relationship has broken down,my kids haven't spent time with their dad for 10yrs,don't let that happen to yours,try to work it out

Hi! leahsmom. Sorry to hear how tough your life has become. I think you should not let your ex meet with the kids as the kids won't have good relation with your husband as your ex will try to manipulate them and this can harm the psychology of kids. You tell him straight that you don't want him to come to your place again or if you can't better take help of the law i am sure there must be some law regarding this in your country. Take care. Wish you all the best. Have a happy mylotting chow.