FoR oNe yeaR oNe peRson kept me away from MyLOt....

United States
September 15, 2009 5:16pm CST
you know it is amazing how about a year ago I allowed one person to push me to the point to completely stop using mylot just because of one comment? You know I would continously log on at the begining I loved the fact that people were very open minded and always expressed there thoughts and views, I had even gotten the blue 10 star and kept it for a good while until one user completely changed everything... that user was a friend i had added and at first i received many great responses from that person unil one day he just was upset about a simple question and well after that it was like a domino he went through many of my discussions and put negative, within one day my star went from a 10 to a 2!!! my mouth dropped all i had worked for.. bam* was taken from me** so tell me what is your opinion on this.. feel free to drop any comment
4 responses
@harmonee (1228)
• United States
15 Sep 09
That seems very immature and petty (not you, the other guy). Just because you don't like a comment or discussion doesn't mean you need to go sabotage that person. It's not that serious. This is a place to enjoy other's input, but go and make enemies. We're glad to have you back!
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• United States
16 Sep 09
Thanks for your response and well on my side I take responsibility in that I just felt horrible on top of the fact that my infant kept me busy, I forgot how much better I feel when i mylot.
@harmonee (1228)
• United States
24 Sep 09
Isn't it a little suprising how busy an infant can keep you! I'm on maternity leave and I totally anticipated my son sleeping for most of the day and having a ton of time to do my lot. Not so much! It's amazing how time just gets away from you.
• United States
15 Sep 09
I dont think its fair for one person to run you off like that. Stay strong jump back in and have the fun with mylots that its ment to be.
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• United States
16 Sep 09
thanks for your response and i agree I am ready to be back into mylot and to hear all the great feedback and different opinions.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
15 Sep 09
if this happens maybe i will be out of mylot for five days or for a week. then i will continue my mylot life. i wont let just a single person control my relationship with mylot, for i have a lot of friends here who deserves to be friends. i wont let a single person push me away from a lot of good person just because of a comment. ill get affected of course we are only human, but i can ask help from my good friends here t6o help me or work my way up the star rating again. life is like that, there are people you will meet that will push you down and so as in mylot world. but if you will let them push you away then you lost the challenge.
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• United States
16 Sep 09
Thanks for your response and well yep unfortunetly i let it get to me and stayed off for a good year my infant has kept me busy i tend to forget about myself.
@skaterx (530)
• Finland
15 Sep 09
Its pretty weird yeah, don't know why he should care so much to go to all the trouble :S. anyway, don't let things get u down though. The best part is getting to share something with people, and not whether you have a high rank or not. imo.
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• United States
16 Sep 09
Thanks for your response and for the positive feedback you are right the rating deal was very childlish and well i do not know why i allowed it to get to me..