is ok for you to share your toothbrush to your partner?
By amyson
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
September 15, 2009 10:12pm CST
well for me i have done it already.i forgot to bring my toothbrush when were in field.my bf let me use his toothbrush for the first time,i thought in my mind its his personal belongings i do not really use personal belongins of other person.but later i realize that he is very sweet in a way he let me use his toothbrush.for me he is very sweet and thoughful.because he said to me when we are one soon so it is ok for him to let me use his toothbrush.i am so lucky i have him in my life.what about your view?
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@cherrc (661)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
for emergency purposes just like what u had, it's ok but please dont make it a habit. of course, that was really touchy. i should know, i can relate to u somehow, haha! anyway, u were saying that u dont usually do it and that was the only time u did that, in which case, in general, there is an exception to the rule and that was it. enjoy! :)
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
Well, I have done that also before with my past partner. Whenever I forgot to bring my toothbrush she is always willing to let me use hers. But then she always told me to not make it a habit since it's not good to always share personal belongings especially those used for hygienes. I guess she's right so I always make it a point not to forget bringing my own. lol =)
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
oh i have another situation here,thank you for sharing and being honest too.i thought i was the only one experience using my bf toothbrush.i also do that since it happen to me once.i always now checking my things at things if i forgot something before leaving the house.
@slaveofsensation (348)
• United States
16 Sep 09
I would share my toothbrush with my boybriend of 8 years in an emergency only! I know everyone is thinking but you kiss him so whats the big deal? It is not the same as kissing at all when you brush your teeth your gums get scratched and they bleed even if you do not see any blood there are microscopic scratches that will be open and you can catch diseases WAY more easily than by kissing if you are sharing a toothbrush with someone you can get an infection or a disease that you cant catch just with saliva.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
we know that for a fact mouth is the breeding part of microorganism or germs.and studies show mouth is the dirtiest part.even in kissing like french kissing still germs can transfer to your partner also in sharing toothbrush.it just happen with once.and i do appreciate the fact my bf share his personal belongs with me.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
Yeah, if he is not greedy enough to share it with me, but I am already immune with his smell and so the same things with me. Whether, I have not yet brush my teeth or brush it already. It really doesn't matter. Thus, I could test his love for me despite having not brush my teeth..lol..
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@rdadey (484)
• Canada
16 Sep 09
I have done it before myself. The thing is that bacteria can be very tough and just rinsing a toothbrush is not going to get rid of them. The next person who brushes is going to pick up those germs, maybe nothing happens but things can.
I also think it is very juvenile if the sharing becomes a regular routine. It's not proving ones love or trust for the other at all. If that all there is to prove in a relationship in such a way, that relationship will fail. Sharing a toothbrush is like saying, "put this in your mouth if you love me". For me, I'm thinking...what's next?
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
lol it just happen only once,using is a routine is not hygienic it transfer germs from one another can cause tooth decay or other infection.but it just happen once.for once it is ok as long you clean it very well.i just cant sleep without brushing my teeth.we were in the picnic at that time.for me he is very understanding in such a way he allow me to use his personal belongings.that is so sweet for me as his gf.
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@rdadey (484)
• Canada
16 Sep 09
I only recall doing it once with a girlfriend. I had to be somewhere and I was at her sister's house. I ended up getting a shower there and she offered me her toothbrush and I did use it. Anyway, I ended up marrying her...hmmmm...was that the reason why I married her? LOL.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
hmmm i think there is a lot of reason why you marry her its part of it,sometimes it just a test whether you love her so much and you can do whatever she offer to you without hesitant.but i will you thumb-ups for being honest and courage to accept her offer to lent her toothbrush to you.lol
@mcowiti (232)
• Kenya
16 Sep 09
was that your way of winning him. honestly your plan worked and for now i know you are at peace with yourself for having shared with him his belongings but on the other side sharing toothbrushes, towels and other personal effects are not good. you may contract a disease. please always remember to carry yours next time. you must be a nice person can we be friends?
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
since it is our partner i think that it will be alright. if we kiss our partner what difference does it make if we share our toothbrush not unless our partner does not have a good oral hygiene. but if your partner is taking care of his mouth then we don't need to worry. and i think that it is kinda sweet to do that. but of course we should have separate toothbrush and only share for some occasion when we forget to have our tooth brush.
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@rainmark (4302)
•
16 Sep 09
It's okay as long as you share it with your bf or hubby.
Maybe it's yucky coz it cleans the dirt in his mouth but you also do the kissing, tongue kiss and you share germs, so that's still the same. Anyway,i think he cleans his toothbrush very well. I do share my hubby's toothbrush when i forget mine to take with me.
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@jimmysun (401)
• China
16 Sep 09
well i think it's ok when you use yr bf's toothbrush. 'cause you 2 will be together for long time and he lend you his toothbrush can be improve that he loves you and wants you to share what his own...just like what you've said it was so sweet then...
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@jenysie (106)
• United States
16 Sep 09
I don't think you should share your toothbrush with your partner...although there's nothing wrong with it in the long run because you kiss so you are getting eachother's germs anyway...but your toothbrush cleans the nasty stuff out of your mouth, and I don't want to use the thing that just got the yucky stuff out of someone's mouth...I think it's yucky....
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@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
Hygienically speaking you should not share your toothbrush to anybody. Yes you do kiss but there are some infection that can be transmitted to your or his toothbrush (gum infection or what). Yes it might be sweet but technically no.
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@practicality (25)
• Australia
17 Sep 09
Haha, I guess its alright ocassionally for situations like this but obviously not everytime. Since sharing toothbrushes is unhygenic and dentists do say never to share toothbrushes, cos you do not know what germs will be transmitted yeah? On the other hand, I think its a sweet gesture from your bf ^^
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
I once allowed my bf use mine because he needs to. However, we bought one the next day. Well, toothbrush is a personal thing which we cannot lend to anyone for hygienic purpose. Yet, circumstances dictates or requires sometimes like your example. So, I guess it is understandable. Once is enough.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
17 Sep 09
No one should ever share a tooth brush .Your mouth is a place full of bacteria ,saliva and other cultures for your mouth only. Yes we swap spit when kissing but this is different.We don't get the bacteria from a kiss. For the safety of you and your partner, use your finger next time.Its better than chancing a problem down the road.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
17 Sep 09
Its not the diseases ,I was referring to .Someone else s bacteria can effect you totally different than it does them.Possibly making you sick.
I do understand how desperate you must have felt to use it.Not having your toothbrush stinks,and also makes you feel desperate.
But you asked
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Sep 09
amyson ask your dentist what he or she thinks of that and they will'tell you love is great but you still should not use anybody
else's toothbrush. His germs may not be compatible with your mouth, at all, and why spread germs like that. no never use anyone else's
tooth brush.they are toocheap you can afford to both have on of'your own. good hygeine is good hygeine.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
yes i believe it has a lot of germs but i forgotten to bring mine and there is no stores where i can buy toothbrush because we are in the forest field for camping.it happens when after eating our dinner i forgotten to bring my toothbrush.so he let me use his toothbrush for me he is very sweet.i know hygiene is important for once you will think its gross or unhealthy but i appreciate it so much.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
the situation happen in the forest we are in camping.so after dinner i am looking my toothbrush but i forgotten to bring it.so i ask my bf if he has extra toothbrush he said he do not have one.so he aks me to use his toothbrush.for me he is very sweet.at first i do not want to use it,i think of the germs to transfer from me.but i love him and i will do what he want just not to dissapoint him so i use it for once.
@xchyler (258)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
hi amyson!
good day to you my friend...
Good for you that he let you borrow his toothbrush ..
For me if I am that situation I will buy toothbrush in the store.I am married now and we don't even use each others toothbrush I find it dirty even if it is my husband already. And it's not advisable I think.lol!
GOD BLESS
xchyler
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
hi too,as you can read some of my reply here,it just happen once,there is no store in the forest that i can buy toothbrush.i know its dirty or i transfer germ the thing is he loves me so much that he will lend me his toothbrush for me is it very sweet and i appreciate for the fact it makes our relationship strong.
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
hi amy,
and now he is your husband already.. both of you ended very happy..
well in that case, for me personally it's not right to let your partner use you personal things.. that's why we call it personal and private.!!
yes you love each other so much but using the toothbrush is a no no to me..
yes we kiss and we exchange that hhmm there, but the toothbrush maybe no..
..
janebeth.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
yes although we shared a lot of things in common.this unite us more we become intimate and our relationship strong.it just happen once when we had we camp but the thing is it is not practically right but we unite as one.so it is not a big deal for me.i love him and she loves me.you can also relate when you have your true love then you can say its true,you cannot also refuse because you dont want him disspooint on you.it is also a test how you love the person.its no big deal for me.
@ks0630672440 (10)
• Netherlands
16 Sep 09
It's not hyghenic and it may be a turn of to your partner.
@ks0630672440 (10)
• Netherlands
16 Sep 09
Oh cool ,but always clean it because you don't want your partner to be sickend by it.
But it just shows your relationship is strong and colorfull
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