Girls, can you accept that your boyfriend younger than you?

i don't accept my boyfriend who is younger or same age as me.i didn't love a boy like that .well,maybe many people will say age is not a problem.just love.yes,maybe they are right.but it is not my way to love a boy who like my younger sister.if he is not mature enough it is hard to get my heart .

I immediately know you'are a Chinese at my first glance of these words above,obviously,this is our Chinese traditional notion and concept.In order to prove my judgement,I went to your profile,as expected,you are a Chinese like me I don't think man must be older than woman in any relationships.Just like me,my GF is six years older than me,actually it's not too bad,and what's more there have more couples who is much more older than her partner compared with my status Then talking back,your boyfriend is only 4 months younger than you,by all means you can ignore it,there's nothing between you and him.Besides,it's just a date,what level that you think you must develop you two into when dating?

I would not mind dating a man younger than I am. In fact I would like it a lot. I used to be married to a man who was much older than I am, 20 years older in fact. He is older than my mother. We had many problems and divorced but I have to say that it wasn't because of his age. Then I went out with a man who was closer to my age, about a year younger, and I liked it very much. So yes, I would be very happy with a younger man.

my husband is the first man i was with that was younger then me, that i remember.. He is only a year younger so its not that big of a difference.. well a year and a half but who's counting :P LOL. sometimes older men are more experienced in life so they are easier to get a long with.. or maybe they've learned from other women how to act and treat a woman.. or... some just never grow up so it doesn't matter how old they are lol.

Oh please 4 months? You are the same age for all practical purposes. Now if you were talking about 20 years which is how much older my daughter is than her husband or 15 years which is how much older my other daughter's husband is than her you may well have something worth discussing. Actually my wife is older than me. Three weeks to be precise

I don't mind to date somebody who is younger to me and that will be fun, but not too younger. You completely forget about the difference in age when you are in love. Love dominates and not the age. You only think about the age factor when the brithday of any one of the person comes. I am not ready to drop a nice person only because of the factor that he is younger to me, which I realize after started liking/loving him.

hello iamfine, maybe that depends on the age gap. yours is just fine for it's only four months. but if the gap is like 5 years or so that is a big question to me. good for you for your boy friend is mature in mind. good luck to both of you. i remember before when i was still single. one of my co-workers kind of like me. she is 5 years older than me. i don't like to have a relationship with that age gap. i prefer that i'm older than her. my wife is 4 years younger than me. we've been married happily for 18 years now. have three kids.

I can not believe you were stressing about 4 months. Thats nothing. Im 53 and i like dating 10yrs under and 10yrs over. My personal limits. I feel that if they are too much younger than 10yrs, especially if they dont have children yet, then i would only be asking for trouble later. I know males that are older than me that i dont think are mature yet. At our ages they probably never will.

Obviously, I'm not a female, but for some strange reason I have an issue with women dating younger men! Now, it could be because of me being a man myself I know how we think! The initial feeling is "Yeah I have this older woman" but it may work out in the end! Sorry to say, it usually doesn't! Here's why; by nature alone a woman matures much quicker than a man! Now, we may have a few in our species that are further along than others, but the fact that if you're 27 and I'm 23, chances are I'm not on that level with you! My maturity level as far as being "The Man" hasn't grown to me just being the man without trying. Now, you are already a woman without trying, that's the woman's make up! Yes, we do have some women that haven't grown up or became a "woman" if in their thirties and sometimes forty, but by then you're stooping down the level of 20 year old and that's who you're dating, 20 year old boys, not men! There are people mature for their age, but not where they need to be. Ok, you have a good job, you know how to handle your business, you're good with money, you seem to be the perfect package on the outside! But 6 or so months down the line, that age difference will kick in and you'll be too far gone!! One of the biggest differences in age and maturity is commitment, and that's on both ends!! I'm 32 and still learning life, imagine me 10 years ago Taripre$

Hi there, well i dont think theres problem with that. Before i have my hubby my other boyfriends before are younger than me, now that i have my hubby he was younger than me by 4 years. I can say that he was matured enough than me, because sometimes i acted like a child. I am glad that even my hubby was younger than me he was really responsible now we have one daughter and i can see how much he loves us. Age is not a problem in any relationship, what matter is that how much you love each other ,keep on mylotting

I've been thinking a lot about this lately and somehow I think I can manage having a boyfriend who is younger than me. I don't know how young I could take though but as long as it doesn't reach 8 years or more..I can't really imagine the fact that I was 8 years old and studying already and maybe aving crush that time when he was born.. But honestly, I prefer older guys.

Hi...I'm a boy. If a boy can accept an older girlfriend...Generally,they prefer the young.That's why all couples you see,women are younger than men.Aha it's bidirectional.

age is a very big factor when it comes to relationship. As we all know in a mutual understanding both parties should be matured enough before they enter into serious commitment. Hence, one of the tool we usually use to measure maturity is the age of the person but mind you sometimes or most of the time there are persons who are not adult enough with their age but can think and decide wisely like a matured individual. It really happens. And in connection with the question, my answer would be "it depends"... Why? like what I have said there are times that even if the person is younger than you he can still think like a matured person, if this is the case I don't think that age can be a barrier in your relationship. But still, we should not take away the scientific facts here. have you ever wonder why there in most cases of relationships boys are older than girls? it's because scientifically speaking girls have a higher rate of maturity compared to the boys. That is why it is very ideal that in a relationship the guy/boy should be older so that the mental maturity of both parties would be equal. therefore, it's a good thing if you will really consider the age of your mate before you go out in a date!

I think that it does not matter about the whole age thing. Love does not supposed to be judgmental and if two people are truly in love with one another. Then it does not matter, I think it is wonderful if you can find someone that treat you likes you want to be treated and you so happen find someone younger than you. I said that people should just live their live and forget about doing things the old way. In with the new and out with the old!!!!

I really don't think age should come into it when two people are in love and want to be together, unless of course one person is a minor and the other isn't, well that would be "jailbait" and statutory rape. Anyway, I'm happily married to someone who is 3 yrs younger than me, and who cares? He's extremely mature, looks older btw. But in the past when I was single, I dated men that were older and younger than me, it didn't really matter. I really think it's just an old traditional stereotype like from my parent's generation that dictates that the man must be older, blah, blah, blah...Do you really want society or some stereotype to influence your decisions that way? Also your boyfriend is only 4 months younger? Big deal, that's nothing, and if you really care about the guy, then that shouldn't be an issue at all.

I dont mind as long as they are not immature. My boyfriend is a year younger than me and i dont have a problem with it.

I have tried dating a guy younger than me and it did not work out the way that I would have wanted it to work out. Well the guy was like three years younger than me. And he seemed mature at the time and promised he was like any other guy that I have dated that was the same age as me or older. Well in the end our relationship did not work out and he cheated. Well I'm not saying that every guy that is younger than their girlfriend is going to cheat on them. Cause it wouldn't matter what age they are. Some guys do cheat. Actually as a matter of fact as well, my mother married a man that was three years younger than her as well. And the first part of the relationship he was the perfect man well in her eyes and his maturity level was more than his age. Well now they are divorced because he cheated on her and he no longer wanted to have responsibilities and be in a relationship and take care of children. He wanted to be free of all responsibilities. And what better time to do it when both of his children was grown and moved out. So, in a way both of those experiences were bad, but I believe that it all depends on how mature that guy is and maybe it would also depend on how far apart they are and that's just my opinion. I believe three years and 4 mnths apart really isn't far apart you may have a chance at him being as mature as you are. I hope things turn out well between you and him.

Oh,maybe I couldn't.I think I always need someone steady-going to remind me something,and I usually would rely on boyfriend,if he's younger than me,I FEEL SHAME ti depend on.So,I would get a bofriend who's older than me.

Hi iamfine! Ever since, I always like my man to be older than me. I'm not even amenable to same age. That's because by nature, men tend to mature later than the women. I also feel extra secured when my man is older than me :) But there are also quite a number of men out there who are more mature than their age. For instance, your man. It really depends on how they were brought up at home. I also have an aunt whose hubsand is younger than her by one year. I guess it really depends on the person's preference :)

Hey luv, I am four years older than my husband- we were boyfriend and girlfriend for five years before getting married and are very happy now! We never think about the age gap or even notice it. What matters is you both have things in common, like/ love each other and look out for each other. Your real friends will stick by you & even if they tease to begin with it will become old news quickly! Besides there are lots of benefits of being with a younger guy. He can be more fun to be with, have more energy & not think he knows better than you -find the rest out for yorself! ps my husband is also 2 inches shorter than me :-) All the best to you both!