His birthday today, and he doesn't aware about it

sweet birthday - On birthday of my son
India
September 16, 2009 9:08pm CST
Here I am talking about my little son who turned 1year today. Even after completion of one year he is not able to speak even walk. He crawl a lot and very mischievous boy. After all boys are boys, no one can stop him. My daughter who is elder than him is excited about his birthday. W We are not going to celebrate his birthday. Even we have not celebrated single birthday of our daughter. I believe to fund expenses of birthday to social organization so it can be helpful to needy, because one year child doesn’t understand what is birthday and they are scared of all those party noise. Here I am somewhat sad too because unable to put picture of my son here. Problem is same for a long time; no internet connection at home. Have a nice day!!
3 responses
Nisha_Verghese
@Nisha_Verghese (551)
• India
20 Sep 09
Hey ranviruchauhan, First of all, tell your kid - 'Many many happy returns of the day!!' from my side. Its lovely having kids, isn't it? Whether to have a birthday party or not is your wish and no one is going to judge you on that,dear. You needn't celebrate it in a grand scale.. Just you and ur wife and ur kid with a half KG birthday cake would be sufficient...
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ranviruchauhan
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
21 Sep 09
Hi Nisha! Happy to received greetings from you. I will pass you wishing to my kid. Actually my both baby is scared of too many people so i avoid big party. Even when i visit home he doesn't feel comfortable because here in Delhi, we four people live me, wife, elder daughter and son. So he is scared when too many people gathered. Same case was there for my elder daughter when she 1yrs.After that I decided to celebrate birthday when they grown up and understand what birthday is? Have a nice day!!
shengpc
@shengpc (4)
• China
17 Sep 09
You are the best parent, it's a good idea.
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ranviruchauhan
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
17 Sep 09
Hi! Thanks for your replay. Cheers Ranvir Chauhan
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Sep 09
Its true one year old can't understand. But in our family we have a niece and nephew. their birthdays are celebrated. But at times, i feel, when they grow up, they hear their birthdays were not celebrated. they feel hurt.
ranviruchauhan
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
17 Sep 09
Hi Subha! You might be right but when they grown up i will convince them about real facts.I have to teach them which is good and which more better So i just wanted to be able to teach them which is good and bad at that point of time.I know there would be difficult to teach them about all those things because of generation gap but that is also true on the other hand, i will try my level best to teach them. Have a nice day!!