Should I marry someone who I don't love?
By yarzar
@yarzar (5)
Myanmar
September 16, 2009 11:58pm CST
I am really confusing about should I marry someone who I don't love. I will really appreciate your discussion.
4 responses
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
19 Sep 09
Hey,
Do NOT marry someone who you don't live, you might struggle in the years to come because you will find it hard to actually talk to her, and you will find yourself looking for another person to marry. Just don't do it. Make sure you have a good day, Happy Lotting!!
@practicality (25)
• Australia
17 Sep 09
mmm, it depends on your culture I suppose. Ask yourself this: Will you be able to live with someone you are going to see and talk with night and day? I know of some people who marry not because of love, but they gradually changed as they got used to each other's presence. It is possible to have feelings develop over time as you spend more and more time in the other's presence, and get to know what kind of persont they are like, what kind of thinking they have etc.
It all depends on yourself adn the circumstances surrounding you I think. If you willing to take the time and effort to know this person. Because even if you love someone, you may not know them very well and the relationship may fall apart. It also depends whether the other person is willing to make the effort to know you. One hand cannot clap by itself, it requires two to succeed. I hope this has helped you in your decision ^^
@dhugoi (315)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
The only logical reason I could think of why you should marry anyone you don't really love is for security or financial reason, if not why would you marry someone you will be with for the rest of your life, unless you have plan of leaving him in the future. Its not pair to anybody if you do that, you just wasting your time.
@BStuff (495)
• United States
17 Sep 09
I think the question here is why would you marry someone you don't love? I think it would be a bad idea to marry someone you don't love simpley because whats the point of living if we dont have someone beside us to grow old with that we love and adore. You will find someone you love and it will all work out. For now I could definatly stay clear of any marriage to someone you dont have very strong feelings for. Its just a waste of your time and their time.