Should I let my dad meet my husband?

I guess for formality you can introduce him to your dad. I really see no problem with that just introduce him then if the meeting goes well at least you made the courtesy of introducing your husband to him. As to the money that he is willing to support you in your wedding then that can be discussed in another set of meetings if there are. I think it is hard to convince a father that is not willing to support you.

I think that the best thing to do is to come clean with your family and let them know what's going on. It's better that it comes from you than they find out some other way. I understand that it's difficult sometimes to do these sorts of things, but it's the right thing to do.

I think that you should let them meet each other face and face for one time .There is a say as "Who started the trouble should end it ".So this problem must be resolved by you father and you husband.

I believe marriage is more than a matter between the two. To have long lasting marriage, we need to have blessing from our family members. No matter what status your parents are, it is hard to sever the relationship with your dad. Though tough to deal with him, try our wisdom and you will find a solution. In my knowledge, the worst case is to arrange a meeting separately while allowing your mother in a safe position.

I think you should try to solve the problem in your family. Just talk o each one. If no solution then be happy with your husband. Then you don't have to wait for your fahter's money. If you have married, you don't have any such right for to seek his money. Thank you.

I think that the most important thing is to get the matter resolved with your father. Maybe have a sit down with your father and talk with him and tell him what you are feeling and things. Maybe even mention to him that if he doesn't want to help pay for the wedding then he doesn't have to, but you would at least like for him to meet your soon to be husband. But you need to talk to your father before you introduce him to your husband. I was in the same particular situation when I was getting married about a year ago. My parents were already divorced and they had already met my husband now and all and my dad was complaining because he didn't want to pay for things and all I really wanted him to pay for was my wedding pictures and he threw a fit about that. My mom was paying for a lot of things already and to have her pay for most seemed unfair. I sat down and I talked to him about how I felt and well in the end, he paid for the pictures. Money is not the important thing though when you are getting married and that was something my mother had told me, while we were planning the wedding. It was just a celebration of my now husband and I to express our love in front of our friends and family and that is the most important thing. So that is something that you have to think about. If your father states that he would not like to help your mother pay for the wedding, then tell him that that is okay and that you would still like him to meet your husband. Maybe he'll lighten up a bit. I hope everything works out for you though with your dad and preparing for the wedding here in the states.

Maybe your father will meet your husband and come around and change from a donkey's butt back to a human. What is happening between him and your Mom should stay there, he is your father. Maybe you can help them mend the rift at least a little.

Just let them meet. Sometimes, what you imagine is totally different from the reality. If there are some difficulties you should face. Go ahead. Then maybe you will find it is a piece of cake, not so hard.

If you don't want to see your dad then there is no reason to have your "husband" meet him. If you are going to see your dad then your husband should see him. I think it is your reasoning that you didn't explain. Why do you not want your husband to meet him, or is it that you weren't planning on seeing your father and didn't want to make a special trip just for the husband? I think it's really up to your feelings as to WHY.

Hi there, i think nothing to lose to try to meet your dad with your husband. Just meet him and say that your husband will legality your marriage. And you both ask him for his blessing. That's all are enough, and i'm sure your wedding will go smoothly and happily ever after. Happy mylotting :)

I think you're right in trying to dissuade your husband-to-be from meeting your father. His actions are condemnable and there should be no way of patching up, especially after the way he has treated your mother and family. He wants to keep the money for himself and cares less for you and the rest of your family.Keep him at bay.