Long Term relationship

Philippines
September 17, 2009 12:25am CST
Is this worth it? I mean, what if you have a gf or bf who is in a relationship with you for 11 or 12 years then after that you broke up, will there be any chances that you two will kiss and make up again even if one of you has a new relationship again?
5 responses
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Possibilities of reconciliation are endless.I guess there will still be a chance of getting back together even after long years of separation.
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
you think they can be together again? well, I can say that they can be friends, til friends =)
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
I think so. Well, actually it really depends on them. They are the ones who feel it. But as I have said, no one can really tell. Who knows if they are destined to.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
of course! 11 or 12 years is really a very long time for two people to stay as lovers so it's no longer an issue if they'll break up and later make up again... :D
@Archie0 (5652)
19 Sep 09
some relationships are short term. people come into our lives for a short time. our paths cross for an instant. some relationships are long term. we nuture, cherish, tend to these relationships. our lives are filled with both kinds -- short and long. so, while long-term relationships allow you to build history with that person, short-term relationships also have value -- often they teach us something, if we're open to the experience. instant gratification is the way of this world. many people do not take the time to fully appreciate relationships, whether they be short or long. wanting things immediately causes many folks to pass by opportunities for relationships that could last a lifetime. even short-term relationships pay the price because people are too busy focusing on what they need, what they want, and how they can get all that fast. personally, i enjoy short- and long-term relationships with friends, co-workers, classmates, running partners, people i meet in the halls at work, in the malls, in grocery stores. even if the relationship lasts all of 20 minutes, it's worth it for me to connect with another human being.
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Hello! I think there will still be a chance to kiss and make up,anyway the two of them have spent a long time with each other.But if one of them had already moved on and is happy with someone else then I think they can be good friends.But to some people,this kind of friendship is very hard,specially to the guilty party who broke the relationship.LOL!
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
well for it is.. knowing you`ve leave for each other for that long is really a big thing meaning there`s a lot of chances that you too could live together forever. Sure relationship fails at one point of the other but having the two of you live together that long could serves as a key for you two to stay forever. If all things fails on the other hand like after 6 to 10 years of being together and you`d be really separated, at least that relationship for so long would make you two better persons and on the process really respect each other regardless of you two each has other relationships. Anyways, long lasting relationship starts in long relationship.
17 Sep 09
i don't have a personal experience in this but i know 2 close friends who were in long-term relationships, broke up because of infidelity and never got back together. i guess it depends on the reasons why couples break up. in my friends' cases, it was infidelity which is really a strong reason for them not to renew their relationships.