How much do you trust your best friend?
By velentina
@velentina (891)
Mauritius
September 17, 2009 5:18am CST
I have stopped trusting people as they are your friend now and later they may not be your friend. So i have no best friend. I did have a best friend but she is now another person's best friend and told that friend everything she knew about me. ...So now i don'e trust any friend....What about you?
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6 responses
@dmrone (746)
• United States
19 Sep 09
Hi! I am sorry that your friend did that to you. I do have a best friend and we share everything. We have been best friends since we were 11 years old. We do not get to see much of each other anymore, but i know that what ever i have told her in confidence she will keep my confidence and she know i will do the same for her. You can't give up on trusting people because someone hurt you or betrayed your confidence. In my opinion that person was not a true friend to begin with, and you need to find one who will be your friend and keep your confidence.
@mohinimandokhot (184)
• India
19 Sep 09
I think you must wait for some time and test your friend's friendship before making anyone your best friend. This way you can ensure that you are not deserted by any of your friends. Let this be a learning lesson for you. In future when you meet a good friend, you will know how trusworthy he or she is and you will not get into trouble.
@myvibes (31)
• India
17 Sep 09
Well friend, in my book there is no word "best friend", friend is a friend only. When we share our personals with friends then we are in risk that these secrets will be revealed to other person one day. So, never to share anything with friends. I have no friends with whom I share my personal matters. I have friends but I draw a line and never allow them to cross that line. So, I did not have any bad experiences with friends..
@madugulagopi (1093)
• India
17 Sep 09
What can I say? because I have faced the same problem so I too stopped trusting people that doesn't mean I don't have friends.I have friends but after certain incidents in my life,I keep them at a distance and so far I don't have any best friend who knows me completely.I think its better than being betrayed by someone whom we thought was our best friend...
@weimin (33)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 09
For me,Best friend is hard to find...Sometimes we really thought that poeple around us are treated us very well...but actually they just treat us like a normal friend...Those friend that around me are always betraying me...so,i'm not fully trust on them rather then just keep me scecret in heart...But just try to be good to others so that they will treat back us good automatically...:-)