What's love about?

Love has got no limits, yes.. BUt how far is the limit?? And does humans like us, have the patience to last that long?? hehe ^_^ YEah, love triangle is the key word here!! lol =D So, no matter what, someone is bound to be hurt right?? So, what's in the 3rd party's mind when they started to gate crash the relationship?? haha =D To fight for their loved ones, or just wanna her/him to make a decision between the two.. lol =D IN the end, nobody is a winner, including hurt.. NOt neccessarily though.. hehe ^_^ If one can go thru the situation once, it does not mean it wont happen again.. lol =D There will always be time, whereby our love rivals will be much stronger than us, making our partners succumb to temptations by them.. haha =D

haha...tough questions from you casper! hehe but anyway, since love has got no limits...how far is that limit just depends on a person's capability to love...coz love will always be there...its just that sometimes it fades...haha due to some shortcomings of the person...of humans like us. what's in a third party's mind? i really don't know...but maybe during those times, his heart is leading him over his mind. you know when you are in love, you will tend to forget about other's feelings...and the selfish part of a person came out... i said that hurt will always be the winner coz in this situation its end point will always be hurting someone...even if we don't have intention of doing so... but one thing for sure, choosing and making a decision is difficult...coz it will require you a lot of thinking and balancing of the situation...but there will always be one better than the other...there will always be one that you love more over the other... in that time, that the rival is stronger than us...hmmm its up to us how to win our loved one's heart...and in this case, we can't do anything if they choose them over us...just accept it and moved on for they are not meant for us...

weh! haha when love fades...you said it already! it gives a chance for a third party to come in...coz if the love is always there burning, i think no way will a third party can interrupt! haha like what i have said, choosing is never easy!!! i know this for i have been in this difficult situation...and everything that i am saying here is something based on what i have experienced...maybe for some they will ended up in giving up both but not for me...for i was able to choose! haha and i am just glad and thankful that i have made a better choice...a better decision...i know i have made it right for i am happy now... maybe there are still lots of people out there who were able to give up their loved ones...coz what's the purpose of keeping them or fighting for them if they don't fight for us? if they love the other more than us? maybe letting them go will be the better choice and if they come back...haha maybe they are meant to be ours...and sometimes, we need space to determine how much we love a person... but sometimes, we just misunderstood our feelings towards a person...sometimes we think its love, but its not...sometimes its just an excitement for a new experience...only to find out in the end that we don't really love that person... well, i agree with you with that thing...the last thing that you said about love/relationship and friendship...

Some things are worth fighting for, but we are fighting in the name as a third party.. DUring the 'fight', how will the actual party be feeling?? And what happens if we are in their shoes too?? hehe ^_^ Will things change?? WIll our decision be affected, if we started thinking for whoever is involved in it??

Be it being the party involved or 3rd party, it does not really make much difference, because the party involved wont give up, and the 3rd party wont lose hope as well.. lol =D In a way, when both sides decides to give up, then where's the love?? hehe Well, there are always instances whereby they dont realise they have already fallen for the 3rd party, till very much later when he/she had given up.. haha =D By then, what's gonna happen to the relationship with their current bf/gf?? Where's the love?? Is it being spoiled by the 3rd party? Or is it simply, their love had faded allowing another to enter?? hehe

Are you the third party or you are the partner? If you are the third party and the person involves is already attach and you know their love is strong. You have to give way and letting go is also a sign of real love letting the person be with the one she love most rather than insisting your love when this person never ever notice you as she is more focus on her partner. Of, course if the aggrieved parties know your intention, they may feel disturb and see you as a threat to their good relationship..and if you are the third party who like to be notice, of course it is hard to be the cause of break up of two relationship who are built on love as you would be judge as the destroyer of their good companionship. Of, course the person disposition when it comes to those things changes for the partner they would either see the third party as the challenges or testing their loyalty and trust. Then, if they are able to surpass the test, their relationship may even be stronger. Wherein, in other situation, let say that both partner lose trust with each other as one becomes jealous with your presence. Then, you would be the culprit for the dissolution of their good relationship. You are lucky if the person you like realize that the relationship she have been holding for too long is not adequate. As her partner suddenly changes his behavior end with a dying love. This may be true if she develop love for you, if not, their is no use in pursuing as even if you are together. She would still recall her first lover and you would still become the second peddler..

wah... kun... I just noticed you new avatar. It is a tat scary hor? Especially when you are looking at it from this discussion about a nasty relationship between boy and girl. *shudder*

Yep. Love is one big headache. Can't live with it! Can't live without either! What a paradox in life huh?

Yup, so true and right!! There are so many angles to be looking at things, and with each scenario being different, and requires different handling of it.. BUt even when there's problems in relationships, or mariages, some wont be giving up that easily, when there's really no hope at all.. As the love from one party is simply too, possessive?? haha =D As for marriage and with kids, they cant be thinking of themselves, but rather the kids now.. If it drags on, it's not good for all of them, and if there's a quick decision made, kids will be forced to face the problem along with parents Love is one headache!! hehe

Short and sweet response huh?? lol =D BUt it's so true as well!!

IN love?? MAybe, maybe not?? lol =D LOve is indeed flexible, and yet straight forward.. BUt sometimes being too flexible or straight forward might causes things to lose its initial balance.. Love does not have to end up in marriage, right, but getting married does not mean they truly love each other too.. lol =D When that's the case, when a 3rd party comes into the picture, who's fault will it be?? And if one were to be thinking on behalf of the parties involved, will things have a different ending??

For that, I'd like to add: Love can be so difficult, lol.. The answers are sometimes obtained as we go along in life. Too bad huh..

lol =D THat's why it's called, life experience.. lol =D

LOve is from the heart, u are right.. BUt what happens when there are 2 ple fighting for your heart?? Or maybe u are fighting with another person with your bf's heart?? hehe

Yeah, the more we love, the more we sacrifice.. But what happens to the current bf/gf of the ones we love?? I guess we wont be feeling good if we are in their shoes too.. haha =D Contradicting isn't it?? And the worst thing will be, asking the gf/bf, to be making a choice between the two.. haha =D

If only things can be that simple, just like saying.. lol =D Too bad, it's human nature to be always wanting piece of the actions.. BY time one realises it, it's too late..