How far is too far to change yourself to fall in love?
By BStuff
@BStuff (495)
United States
September 17, 2009 8:52pm CST
I just watched He's Just Not That Into You. I've noticed a lot of girls and guys will find someone they like then try to be what that person wants instead of realizing if they aren't into you now they probably won't be into you later.
So my question is when is it too far to change? Like wearing the color red because you find out they like red? Changing your hair? Deciding you don't want kids because they don't want kids?
Where is it too much? How do you all feel about this? When is enough enough?I generally think if you have to change for someone anything more than maybe perfume or color of clothing your probably not going to end up together and your just trying to make something fit that isnt going to fit. You should wait for that other person whose as into you for YOU than into you for who they THINK you are.
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@satan88 (584)
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
18 Sep 09
i couldn't agree more. it's sad to say (for a guy) that i have watched that movie more than once because my sister watched it a lot in the living room and i just happened to be there. Maybe changing your hair or your clothes but not big life changing decisions like kids.
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@martieann (40)
• United States
18 Sep 09
I agree. While it is okay to wear something your boyfriend or husband especially likes on occassion even dressing continueously as he wants you too can mean you aren't be true to yourself. Anyone who loves you has to love you for you, not what they can make you into.
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