Are You In?

@p1kef1sh (45681)
September 18, 2009 3:44am CST
When someone comes to the door who you are not expecting do you answer? Do you hide away and hope that they'll go away, or make straight for the door and say "hello".
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Sep 09
hi Pikefish depends on who comes to the door.If its the Jehovah witnesses I have headed into the back of the apartment and hjde in mybedroom, only the sneakers came around to my bedroom window and'I'will be damned they knocked on my window.okay so I let them in and they talked and talked and talked until I had to tell them I had low blood sugar and I am a diabetic and was about to pass out.They did not leave so my son came out and said,done you understand english my mom is ill please leave now and they did. Now of course I am not bothered with that and would love some company ocassionally loll
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
LOL. I can just imagine you sneaking round the house to avoid them Hatley. I quite like my local JH and we often have discussion - usually non religious ones!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Sep 09
typo alert should be dont you understand English
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@med889 (5941)
18 Sep 09
Well when I open the door then the first thing I say is "Oh please come in" Even if that's my neighbors who come in several times a day, but my mother says to always welcome then nicely.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
Even to a stranger?
@med889 (5941)
18 Sep 09
Not to stranger of course I might tell them "Yes what do you want" as there are so many people who comes to sell their stuffs. But I will never allow a stranger in my house if ever I am alone also.
• Canada
19 Sep 09
We live in a secure building with a buzer in the lobby. If I don't know that someone is coming, and the thing goes off unexpectedly, I don't answer it. Today it went off for a ddelivery, but I was expecting that. I also ask people, if they have cellphones, to call me from the lobby, instead of buzzing, because the buzzer makes the most awful noise in the world, and I hate hearing it.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
Sometimes the buzzer goes off and you can leap out of your skin! I know, I lived with one for 9 years!
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
19 Sep 09
I wouldn't answer the door if I'm not expecting anyone unless I am told someone will come but don't know when but most of the time I am not close to the door anyway I spend most of my time in my shop, computer, cleaning the house or outside
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
I can imagine that those places distract you enough without callers.
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
Oh, Id really rather not answer the door by myself. If there is someone who I can ask to answer the door, then I really ask them to. If I was alone in the house, I sort of "hide" first, and try to create the illusion that no ones home. Then I try to look if the person at the door/gate is someone I know, then I will answer, if not then I just hope he/she would go away. Though there are those times that I do peer out and ask who they were looking for or what was their purpose. It's just a rare thing for us to get visitors and if we do have them, its more than likely an expected one. If it is the mail of bills, the collectors here have the habit of shouting the company name, telling us that its an important billing notice. Otherwise, they would just leave the bill in the mailbox.^_^
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
It's bad enough getting a bill without the postman telling you and the world that it's arrived! You have my sympathies.
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
LOL nah, its okay. It's the norm around here. People get used to it and good thing our neighborhood is a quiet one. You hardly see people out and about.^_^
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
19 Sep 09
I have been known to hide. One of these days Alan Rickman will come, and I'll be caught out in my dressing gown, cowering behind the coffee table. Bad luck, Alan ... if I'd known you were coming I'd have baked a cake!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
Ready for action then in your dressing gown. Don't want to waste precious moments baring all Guy! LOL.
@dorypanda (1601)
18 Sep 09
Normally it's Mr.Panda who answers the door as he's the one sitting nearest to it. I don't mind answering the door to anyone, but usually callers who I know just knock and walk in anyway.
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@dorypanda (1601)
18 Sep 09
Nah, not all of 'em, some of 'em are my sisters. ;P
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
LOL. I guess leaving the door open is one way of dealing with them. I hope that they are all friends!
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@nannacroc (4049)
18 Sep 09
Most times I answer the door. I love the look on the faces of people trying to sell me stuff when I ask if they can read. We have a sign which clearly states we don't buy from doorstep sellers. Usually it's the neighbours little boy wanting to know if Mr Croc can get his ball or play cricket with him. It's difficult to ignore a persistent six year old.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
Good old Mr Croc. Getting his pads on and taking his place at the crease.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
18 Sep 09
for me its not a matter of whether or not I'm expecting them...its more about whether or not I even want to see them LOL...but 9 times out of 10 I answer the door and if I'm not in the mood for a visit I just cut it short..Now answering the phone is a different story...there are plenty of tiems I'll let the machine get it just cuase I'm not in the mood to chat regardless of who it is
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
Our phone only rings four times before going to the machine. I've been known to hurl myself round the house like a demented banshee trying to get there in time. Only to find: "Are you thinking about double glazing?" WTF! LOL.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
18 Sep 09
Nope--if I'm not expecting someone I never answer the door. Often my bell will ring and first thing I do is take a look out my 2nd floor apt. window...if I see a mail truck or UPS that's different. Otherwise..nope. There have been many times I hear voices out in my hallway outside my apt. of some salesmen or these religious nuts wanting to save my soul. They go door to door and I ignore them...I don't want to buy anything, nor have my soul saved.....of course most of the religious fanatics tend to ignore my door, why? I have a pentagram on my door....I am after all, pagan/wiccan
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
Now if I was a religious "nut" I'd love to stop and talk. I might learn something.
• India
18 Sep 09
Since I have made myself extremely unpopular among the family members, no one from the family turns up at the door anymore. If friends come, they always tell me well in advance. So if someone rings the bell, I am curious to know who it is. Usually, it is the salesman. If I have the time, I let him gas around before telling him I am not interested. Otherwise, I just shoo him away. Cheers and happy Mylotting
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
Shoo him like a stray cat. I have an image of salesmen running down the road pursued by ladies with brooms! LOL.
• Netherlands
19 Sep 09
I am Never "in" whether it be someone at the door or someone on the phone P1key...Unless I have a specific appointment and know who it is Or Unless there is an emergency, maybe someone sick in the hospital etc. and Then I will answer the phone/door all of the time. I figure if I don't know you are coming or calling then you are just going to bother me to buy something or give my money to you one way or the other!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
I called today and you weren't in GEL! LOL. Hope that all is OK.
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• Netherlands
21 Sep 09
haha!! I KNOW!!! I almost re-broke am ankle trying to get to the phone Before you hung up! But to YOU P1KEY...I am ALWAYS "in"...if I am!!
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 09
Unless it's a person I really know, I pretend not to hear it. I don't really like to entertain guess and I don't know whether that person come with good intention (this apply for strangers regardless whether they show up during night or day) It's better to ignore and pretend I am not at home.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
I think that it is very unwise to open the door at night especially.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
I FIRST see if who is coming before opening my doorway.because i had my experience in the past someones i didnt know enter my house when my maid open the door and entertain the person,she was harass and he my jewelry box in my room.because he ask the maid wheres my room.thee are 3 person enter my house and my jewelry and my digital camera worth 45t.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
How awful. I hope that you called the police.
@chertsy (3798)
• United States
21 Sep 09
It depends on who comes to my door. If it's a kid, I will answer the door. I try not to answer the door when adults come and try to sell things. It's hard when my kids look out the window and they notice them. Now once I had one guy bang on my door, so I had to answer it quick. I was afraid he would wake up my husband, since he gets cranky if he is woken to soon. I need to get a sign and put it outside that states that I don't want to buy anything. Maybe then that would solve a lot of my problems.
@chertsy (3798)
• United States
23 Sep 09
That's just to funny, I bet that guy wished he didn't knock on your mother's door that day. I have seen a sign that says No Soliciting, GO AWAY, I like that because it's direct and to the point.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
22 Sep 09
My mother has a sign that says that she doesn't buy at the door. Once she had a man knock on the door who said that he couldn't read the sign and could she explain it to him! Whilst she was collecting her thoughts he started to try to sell her something. He didn't stay long!
• United States
18 Sep 09
If I am not expecting anyone I always look through the "peek hole" and if is a stranger or someone from a religious sect I do not open the door. They do not stay long on the door step as my 3 dogs sound very ferocious!
• United States
18 Sep 09
Yes indeed they do!. The are always very clean, neat and 99% of the time have a small child tagging along with them for window dressing .....look we love children!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
Do strangers and Religious sect folk look different? I can imagine that with 3 dogs barking only the most persistent hang around!
• United States
18 Sep 09
dumblnddzzy You will be welcome!
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
19 Sep 09
I answer, but I can't say I am always that nice....
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
Huh Huh! I can be like that too.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Sep 09
Sometimes I do hide because I just don't want to be bothered, don't want to deal with a sales pitch or whatever. I wouldn't do it if it were somebody I know. Heck, if you showed up on my doorstep... POOL Party!!!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
I'll pack my trunks. Not Speedos though. I'm not that vain!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Sep 09
Definitely not if I am there wearing speedos. Funny - but not hot!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Sep 09
Hey, come on over Alice. It's going to be HOT! and I'm not talking about the speedos
22 Sep 09
Hi pikey xx I must admit I dont always open the door. I sneak up quietly and look through our peep hole. We have a curtain on the door to block the window. People dont know you approach the door until you open it. We are known to get religious people come round, which we dont like listening to what they have to say. If Im not expecting anyone, then I wont answer the door. Mind you we dont have many people knock.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
22 Sep 09
I don't mind the religious ones - I give as good as I get. I'm thinking about a curtain too. But that's to help keep us warm in winter! Good to see your here again by the way.
22 Sep 09
Im trying to fight my mylot inbox, its very full with digests at the moment. Getting bored of facebook now so trying to get back into the mylot groove. I dont like the religious ones, surely if I wanted advice or information, I would seek it outmyself!!?? Great to see you on here too x
18 Sep 09
Well the only time this happens is if my parents have arranged an appointment with someone and then they go out and the person arrives. We don't have random friends coming to the house luckily as this would make me feel rather ill from anxiety. Even sometimes when someone knocks on the door and I know it is important for my parents I can't go and answer it! When I have my own place I hope no one knocks on my door or bothers me because it would feel weird and slightly intrusive of my own space. I like to go home at the end of the day and feel like it's my own space away from the rest of the world where I can just relax and re charge for the next day.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Sep 09
That's what it should be like. Unfortunately it doesn't always work that way. I hope that it does for you when you have your own place.