you got played once, would you let it happen again?
By edzllamas
@edzllamas (6)
Philippines
September 18, 2009 5:31am CST
so, you met this nice person and swept you off your feet, and gave him everything, your love, your world. then turns out to be he can't so the same, he was only after you coz he wanted to get into your pants, after which, poof! he's gone, and after a month you found out that he is dating someone new, and he so loves her. but then the time came when they got into a complicated relationship and he sends you a text. he made you go *gaga* over him again, but still, he gave you the cold shoulder. now, after some time, you saw each other, and youre still not over him, what would you do? wait? or finally give up? but if you do give up, how would you do it?
6 responses
@Boboy2 (62)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
It is not to easy to handle things when they really hurt you that much. There are people who like to hurt others. They like to see someone having teardrops in her lovely eyes. But would you do the same? Let your guy be conquered of your authentic love. Do not shun him away. Let him see what love really is. Accept him. Let him feel how hurt you were and are. What matters afterall is that you loved him and he missed the point.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
18 Sep 09
if he was so selfish to use u and then he goes away..hoe can u be still iver him..he cheated and played with your emoions..no second chance to such person according to me..though sensitive people will find it too rough..to say like this but sensitive people only have to suffer much if such relationships don't work...so never give yourself a second chance to be cheated...just be a bit strong and walk away from him..
@berith (27)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
for me...giving up is not the right term... what will i do is to let go...let go of the memories..let go of the pain...let of the past...let's say that you still love him... and so? keep in mind that if he was able to did it once he can do it again...ha can hurt you again...he can leave you again...and if your smart enough you wont stick to someone who will just play games with you..the best thing to get over is to forgive him and pray that God will give the right man in your life at the right time...
@Boboy2 (62)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
It is good to offer to someone else what is best in you. You gave him your love and that what matters. He refused to feel the same. Let it be. Loving does not expect any returns. You gave him everything. Let him cherish each moment you spent with him. Do not cry over spilled milk. Move on and share the love to others. You are not supposed to waste your love to someone who does not even care to lift a finger in uplifting the beat of your heart.
