what are the advantages of older man to a younger man in a relationship?

I think it's important that the person you become involved with is mature and respects you. Even an old guy like me loves to have fun but there are times when you have to be serious. My father was 20 years older than my mother, one of my brother's was 10 years older than his wife and another brother married a woman who was 14 years older than him. I think in all cases someone was looking for the other for maturity and stability. For an older person, getting someone younger keeps you in a younger frame of mind.

Hi,amyson,all older men are young ones at one time and behave like younger man with same characters ,you mentioned.But after growing older,learn life practically,learn practically from society how to live,live with matured mind serious in any relation.In younger age there are fantacies,illusions,teenage attractions,no burdens and target and no seriousness in life.So i totally agree with your statement.All the best.

Older men are more mature and financially stable than younger men. But, in reality i prefer men who are the same aged with me, or men 2 years older than me and if their are younger men who be in love with me. it is still alright as long as he think a man and mature enough. Sometimes their are adults who are childish and young people who are more mature in their thinker.

older men have more brains and is more financially and emotionally stable. lastly, have a fat wallet too and lot of properties. thus, her partner would be very happy ans satisfy. Unlike younger man think like childish, boring, changeable mind and worst some have no work. Thus,not serious in having a long term commitment.:D

Older men baby you. They are more patient, more experienced and they are more interesting than younger men. Younger men have nothing to share.

I have never experienced having a boyfriend that is two years older than I am. The most that I can allow is only a guy who is a year older than me because I'm afraid that the guy might take advantage of me. I am not saying that every matured men thinks that way to their woman, it's just that I heard a lot of stories about my friends who got married early because they got pregnant with their boyfriends who are years older than they are. These guys might think that they are ready for that responsibility since it goes with their age, but how about their women? are they ready too?

hi, thanks for sharing this discussion. form in my own opition, older men are more experience in life than younger men... older men are more fatherly like to their partner.. they are more matured....& i agree with u that they are more stable in any aspect like emotional & financial... for me it doesnt matter if its older & young as long that he love me & i love him is more important than anything... thanks again... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^

I find older man more mature and more stable. That's why I married him. It's not like I married him because of his age, but I made sure I know what needs to be known about him and so far I have no regret marrying him for almost 9 years.

I prefer older man than my age. I believe he can take care of me forever like his queen.

I find older man with a lot of wisdom. I have spoken to quite a few of younger men but all they are interested is computers, women. I think that is understandable since they not not experienced yet the fullness of life.

I had always preferred to be with older men then younger men. I did try dating a youger man and he was three years younger than me. And it come to find out that he was a player and a cheater and was completely immature. And now I am married to a man that is older than me. I believe that men who are older, yes they have already experienced everything and they are already mature and the younger men are immature or just not at the level that you would like them to be. Although, I would also like to say that it could be reversed and you may find some men who are younger than you who are actually mature and are looking for a long term relationship and a committed relationship. But I think you would probably find very few of those. I also believe you could be with an older man, but he may still be immature and is not yet ready to be in longterm committed relationships and they may cheat as well. And I think few you will find of those as well. Its not just always because the guy is older or younger than you, but it more of depends on that type of guy that you are with and what his goals and everything or and what he is looking for.

Hi Amyson, Talking about relationship and soulmate, I will go for older man rather than young man. Older man is more mature in thinking and have better prospect in their life with their mature thinking. I feel more secured with older man in my life. I remembered well when I was young, there is a guy who is younger than me 3 years old,going after me. I rejected him because he is more like a kid to me. Age is an issue when comes to relationship. I can't accept who is younger than me to be my soulmate.

Yes women prefer the mature men as they feel they are secure in relationship. But difference should not more where relation can break

I do not think the mature level concerning to the age, I happend to some older man, even he is in his 30's, but just plays as a kid and still hanging around the bar. Some younger man who experienced a lot will cherish the life and know how to take care of the girls. Well, we can not just judge a guy by their appearance or age to see if he is stable, we should observe his behaviour, this manner and his attitude to life to determine whehter this guy is your Mr. right. Good luck to you and Happy myLotter.

I think maybe the old man will give you more satisfy, happy than the younger man. The old man has money, has job, has ability enough to care for you. The young man is very easy too change his mind and you can't follow him all life. But with me, I will prefer get married with the man love me to get married with the man I love without the ages. Because he can bring everything I want and I need. (of course he has enough ability)

There is not much difference. Also maturity is perceptional. A boy can be physically and emotionally mature enough at the age of 16 also. It depends on the mindset of the person and also on how he was raised. Some boys learn to take the responsibility of his house at an early age.